Urgent, i need it for tomorrow.. 10 points for best?!


Question: Urgent, i need it for tomorrow.. 10 points for best.?
Okay, so me n my bf are having a farewell sex tomorrow. Cuz hes leaving the country.. however.. I never orgasm while in the thing.. I fake it most of the times.. he gets it like 2 times in 45 minutes.. thats while hes trynna hold back from rushing through the cumming part right away. I know its alittle gross to talk in details but..
Tomorrow i really want to feel an orgasm during sex.. and i did lose my virginity to him..
I have issues with getting wet.. cuz hes the type to just get directly into the sex part mostly..

So my friend is getting me those "blue pills" from the UK that he said worked perfectly for his gf,
Any idea of the existence of such pills, i thought it was only for males..Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I don't think this answer will help for tomorrow because your boyfriend needs some sex education Big Time.

You could get a vibrator and take care of your own needs first, but he really needs to learn how to satisfy you. It's very selfish and disrespectful of him to 'get into the sex part' without a lot of foreplay to get you ready.

also, many women don't reach orgasm with vaginal penetration. They need clitoral stimulation from oral or manual sex or sex toys.

Regardless, HE should be helping you have an orgasm with whatever it takes.

When he returns from wherever he's going, have a very open conversation with him about the need for you to work together towards your mutual satisfaction. If he's unwilling to learn new techniques to please you, think about moving on.

About faking orgasms... don't reward him for poor performance. If he wants the sound effects, he needs to earn the privilege.Health Question & Answer

I wouldn't take those "blue pills," instead try a little foreplay so you can get somewhat excited before starting. He's just doing it for him if he doesn't - and what kind of relationship is that.? It should be about pleasing your partner. FWIW - sex really is better when you are married and in love.Health Question & Answer

personal experienceHealth Question & Answer

Watch a porno with himHealth Question & Answer

Instead of taking pills, tell Mr Selfish Jack Rabbit to do HIS PART of the job properly. He is blaming you for his problem. If he gets off twice in 45 minutes, he is only taking 20 mins per time. Most women need 20 minutes or more of foreplay, so obviously you are not getting what you need. Stop faking and start demanding.

If he takes care of your needs instead of just rushing to take care of himself, you will get wet and have an orgasm. He needs to kiss and cuddle with you, use his hands and tongue, cuddle and kiss again etc etc before "getting to the sex part".Health Question & Answer



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