DESPERATE: Oral sex hangup??!!?!


Question: DESPERATE: Oral sex hangup.?.?!!.?
I am dark skinned and so my genital area is MUCH darker than the girls in pornographic films. (Everything has been checked out healthwise - all good)

I am really self-conscious about it and it stops me from enjoying sex.

This is the only hang up I have about my body, otherwise I am well aware of my attractiveness.

Is this a turn off for guys.?.?

And is there anything you can do about it.? (short of plastic surgery)Health Question & Answer


Answers:
First don't compare yourself to porn stars, to me they don't look all that natural to begin with.
Don't go for plastic surgery, you could end up with a botched surgery from a doctor who is less then qualified to do it.
If your healthy then all is fine with you. You just need to learn how to love your body.
Don't let that keep you from enjoying sex. If you happen to find a guy that loves you for who you are, then chances are he won't care too much about what is down south. Who knows he may think it's unique and may love you even more for it.Health Question & Answer

First off, It's not a turn off for guys at all! The only thing that is a turn off to guys is a girl who is self conscious about her looks. Be confident with who you are, that's the true "turn-on" for guys! Health Question & Answer

make it work.. dont act like it bothers you. If you're into it, he will like it.
he probably wont even notice he's so excited he's getting some.
just work it, dont let it other you.. be confidant Health Question & Answer

If they want to do it, they'll do it. You have to think about it- all vaginas are pretty gross looking. Guys don't care! Just learn to enjoy it and it will be easier!Health Question & Answer

If you're close enough with someone to let him go down there, then he should be cool and understanding with the uniqueness that is you. Rock it, girlfriend!Health Question & Answer

leave the lights off or use candlelight. Guys probably don't care. Don't compare yourself to porn. It's garbage for the brain.Health Question & Answer

try skin bleach - lotions won't bleach it completely, just make it lighter and lighter until you decide it's good enoughHealth Question & Answer

Not a turn off.
If anything, a turn-on.Health Question & Answer

Ahhh no once we are commited nothing will stop us ..As a good captian we go down with the ship{little man in the bost} dont worry just lay back and enjoy!!Health Question & Answer

WHOOOAAA, not at all I love dark lips. Don't freakin' worry just get your *** on. Good luck thanksHealth Question & Answer

your probably fine, and most guys should be turned on you even let them see that.. Health Question & Answer

Look, by the time I realize how dark you are down there, it is a bit of a moot point for meHealth Question & Answer

do nothing
being dark skin is just no big deal girl
go out and enjoy
guys dont give a damn
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I wouldn't worry about it, just enjoy yourselfHealth Question & Answer

i dont think so enjoy sex have a nice dayHealth Question & Answer

bleaching creamHealth Question & Answer



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