Fat boyfriend..kinda becoming unattracted to him?!


Question: Fat boyfriend..kinda becoming unattracted to him.?
ive been with my bf for over a year now, and he's been gaining weight. At first i was like okay, he'll lose it eventually. But no, nothing ever gets done. I feel worn down by the way i always try to look my best for him and i never get it in return. I'll say "go walk in your neighborhood" but he'll come back with "its boring and my neighborhood is stupid" its so frustrating!!!
can anybody help me.? its like if im not RIGHT THERE then he wont do anythingHealth Question & Answer


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Maybe he's really unhappy about something. Talk to him, but don't bring up weight. Just say something like, "I'm kind of worried about you because you seem sad (or frustrated, or hopeless, etc.) most of the time". You have to find the root of the problem, and then you can solve it. also offer to go walk to places with him. Don't force it, and do not make it a chore. Maybe even sign up for a class at the gym or local recreational center (dancing, boxing, whatever). But, if you can't deal with the time and effort needed to be with your boyfriend, then maybe he's not right for you. Or you're not right for him. Try to remember what attracted you to him in the first place, and then let him know. He probably doesn't realize how much he has changed.Health Question & Answer

straight up tell him he needs to lose the weight, tell him your sick of trying to look your best when he wont do it in return. Tell him hes becoming unattractive and that he needs to try if he wants to stay with you!Health Question & Answer

Try joining a gym together.Health Question & Answer

tell himHealth Question & Answer



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