What can i do im so hurt please help me?!
Question: What can i do im so hurt please help me.?
i have been with my partner 2 years and we have a baby girl together aged 1, we have spilt up so many times before and he has come back after a couple of days, his gone again only thins time he is saying his never coming back which he has also said b4, but this is so different his time he is saying things are never gonna change and has been gone a week now, i havent eaten for 6 days and im feeling so much despair, i keep caling him and texting him to tell him how i feel and how much things are going to change but he wont listen says he has hurd it all before....in which he has.. see the problem is i suffer from severe mood swings and i have realise now that he has gone just how bad they are and i have gone and got help for it, i have set up so much for if he comes back home that it will wotk again
he is seeing his daughter sat which is thru an aunt of mine he dont want to be anywhere near me. i keep asking him to plz think about the things im saying about the changes he says ok he will and for me to leave him alone but in the next breathe saying his made up his mind and is never coming back home and all he wants to do is see his daughter, me and him are soul mates and when things are good they are really good. i just want him to come back home so much im in so much pain with it all i know in my heart things will be ok if he would give it a try and come home but his saying no.
please help me what can i do.?.?.? do u think he will be back.?.?
everyone is saying give him space and i did for 2 days no contact and he still fells the sameHealth Question & Answer
he is seeing his daughter sat which is thru an aunt of mine he dont want to be anywhere near me. i keep asking him to plz think about the things im saying about the changes he says ok he will and for me to leave him alone but in the next breathe saying his made up his mind and is never coming back home and all he wants to do is see his daughter, me and him are soul mates and when things are good they are really good. i just want him to come back home so much im in so much pain with it all i know in my heart things will be ok if he would give it a try and come home but his saying no.
please help me what can i do.?.?.? do u think he will be back.?.?
everyone is saying give him space and i did for 2 days no contact and he still fells the sameHealth Question & Answer
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i know its hard for me to say when i am not in ur position and i realise you must be very upset right now. but my advise to you would be, calm urself down abit firstly you dont want to make yourself ill and ur daughter upset either. your getting help with your mood swings which is good. and if you calm down abit, leave him for even longer. carry on with contact for him with your daughter. and let him see that you have changed and that you are not the same as before.. and then when you alot calmer and dont sounds as clingy tell him how you feel about him and how you have made these changes for him and how you really want to give it another go and if it doesnt work again then you will walk away from it yourself. if he still isnt interested then you need to start to try letting him go, cas it isnt worth all the upset and stress your putting yourself through if your not going to get anywhere.
i hope it all sorts out for you two :) xHealth Question & Answer
i hope it all sorts out for you two :) xHealth Question & Answer
He won't come back whilst you are acting like a desperate loony (i wouldn't) Sort yourself out look after your daughter and carry on, when he sees that his tantrum is not working he will be asking you to take him back. And if not you have your daughter to put first, life goes onHealth Question & Answer
Leave him alone. Move on with your life. It's harsh, but obviously you weren't good for each other. See a psychologist, eat, and try to take care of your baby girl, okay.?Health Question & Answer
u should go to yo aunt house and wait for him in the house alone then talk 2 him.Health Question & Answer
You seriously need to get some self esteem, this guy is not good you and emotionally you too obviously don't make each othe happy.
Move on and make the most of the opportunity, why would you want to be with someone who talks down to you.?
Find someone who respects you, you will be much happier in the long run.
Really, Move on already, and eat, this is silly.Health Question & Answer
Move on and make the most of the opportunity, why would you want to be with someone who talks down to you.?
Find someone who respects you, you will be much happier in the long run.
Really, Move on already, and eat, this is silly.Health Question & Answer