Have you ever been deeply hurt?!
Question: Have you ever been deeply hurt.?
Last night me and my friends from work went out for happy hour. Now we were all having a good time when a new co-worker of mine came up to talk to us. Well once it was time to go, ha walked me to my car and thats where things became difficult.
He proceeds to tell me he has been liking me for some time and that he knows for a fact that my husband is cheating on me.
(U see we all go to the same church and him and my husband are in the men's choir together)
Long story short he was right. We drovre over to wear my husband was (after i called and ask him where he was and of course NO ANSWER).
I waited up for him and every since 3am we have been doing nothing but arguing and fighting all night long. Now i KNOW hw is cheating and as he politely put it he will not stop. He doesnt want a divorce not until our last child turns 18. ( he is 13 now)
What am i going to do. We have been married for 9 years and have children together( asctually been together for 12 years just married for 9)
I am so hurt but hey it is what it is. Im not interersted in my co-worker cause I just dont feel like being bothered with another man right now but trust me my heart is hurting deep.
Would it be wrong to just get away for a couple days and mess with him or should i just continue to pack (like im doing now) and wait it out
THANKS.
P.S. If this sounds weird, i apologize cause im extremly hurt right now and have been up for 24 hoursHealth Question & Answer
He proceeds to tell me he has been liking me for some time and that he knows for a fact that my husband is cheating on me.
(U see we all go to the same church and him and my husband are in the men's choir together)
Long story short he was right. We drovre over to wear my husband was (after i called and ask him where he was and of course NO ANSWER).
I waited up for him and every since 3am we have been doing nothing but arguing and fighting all night long. Now i KNOW hw is cheating and as he politely put it he will not stop. He doesnt want a divorce not until our last child turns 18. ( he is 13 now)
What am i going to do. We have been married for 9 years and have children together( asctually been together for 12 years just married for 9)
I am so hurt but hey it is what it is. Im not interersted in my co-worker cause I just dont feel like being bothered with another man right now but trust me my heart is hurting deep.
Would it be wrong to just get away for a couple days and mess with him or should i just continue to pack (like im doing now) and wait it out
THANKS.
P.S. If this sounds weird, i apologize cause im extremly hurt right now and have been up for 24 hoursHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
first of all I'm glad you're leaving and heading by your stupid husbands words. second, the whole messing around with your coworker may throw him off and confuse you even more. Yes you are hurting right now and having fun, does sound fun, but in the long run it is most likely going to end up doing more harm then good, maybe not to you but to your coworker for sure. Here's what I would do, take your husbands credit card and go put yourself up in a nice hotel (expensive because your lovely hubbies paying of course), get a nice bottle of wine and draw a bath at your hotel and de-stress. Then call up your girls and go have a night on the town. Or take your little girl with you to the hotel, indulge in a few glasses of wine and have a girls night with her (: hope I helped!Health Question & Answer
I don't know what the best solution is, but there's one thing i know for certain, your husband has to make a choice: he either stops seeing the other woman, or it's divorce. It doesn't matter if he doesn't want a divorce - it's not up to him if you decide to boot him out the door. You can divorce him whether he wants to or not. It might be a good time to talk to a divorce attorney to find out your options. The initial consultation with a n attorney is usually free.Health Question & Answer