My mom abandoned me now suicidal. 10 points for best answer.?!
Question: My mom abandoned me now suicidal. 10 points for best answer..?
first of all, this is very long i am sorry but please read... i am 16 years old. my mother and i have had always had a rough relationship. when i was in grade 4 or 5 she decided to move away to another province because her boyfriend at the time was leaving and she wanted to be with him. Ever since she has came to visit me once for my grade 8 farewell which was 3 years ago. All the other times i have went to visit her. Recently she got me a plane ticket to go see her but she made it so i would be missing school and i would have to stay over night at a mans house who i dont know, so i told her i didnt want to go. About a day after i stayed home from school because my dads gfs 5 year old diabetic daughter was very sick with a cold and her mom couldnt find a babysitter last minute so i told her that i would watch her. I missed 2 days of school because of that. My mom found out and she freaked out saying that i was lieing to her when i told her i didnt want to miss school, but i find the situations very different. We ended up getting into a huge fight and she told me " you dont want a mother anymore , your choice " when i didnt even come close to saying i didnt want a mother anymore i just said i didnt want to talk to her right now cause i was upset. Then she deleted me off of her facebook and wont return my messages. I feel really suicidal now, because less than a month ago a close friend died and now i have lost my mother too. I dont know what to doHealth Question & Answer
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Your mom's a B*&(&%. You are ok, but your mom;s a first class, royal B@#(*)
If you feel bad about yourself, she wins. The best way to get revenge is to work at being a positive, productive and successful person. Then you can send her a snap shot of your happy life (of which she'll have no part) and tell her to shove it in the turdcutter if she likes.
Anger is your friend here. There is no shortage of people in the world to love. I know at your age the mother relationship is the most important, but time will change that. There are many wonderful people out there, and you are one of them. You'll get a second chance at a happy family when you have kids of your own. And something tells me that your experience will make you the best mother ever.
I envy your children.Health Question & Answer
If you feel bad about yourself, she wins. The best way to get revenge is to work at being a positive, productive and successful person. Then you can send her a snap shot of your happy life (of which she'll have no part) and tell her to shove it in the turdcutter if she likes.
Anger is your friend here. There is no shortage of people in the world to love. I know at your age the mother relationship is the most important, but time will change that. There are many wonderful people out there, and you are one of them. You'll get a second chance at a happy family when you have kids of your own. And something tells me that your experience will make you the best mother ever.
I envy your children.Health Question & Answer
Hi
Your mum is being very unreasonable towards you. The situations are different and she should be understanding, but she clearly isnt.
Could you write a letter to her explaining exactly what happened, explain that you do want a mother just at that time you where upset and hurt. Tell her that you love her etc, and want contact, and let her get back to you.
Can you talk to a school counsellor, friend or family member about how you are feeling. If you are actively suicidal you need to go to the ER and get help and support from them.
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Your mum is being very unreasonable towards you. The situations are different and she should be understanding, but she clearly isnt.
Could you write a letter to her explaining exactly what happened, explain that you do want a mother just at that time you where upset and hurt. Tell her that you love her etc, and want contact, and let her get back to you.
Can you talk to a school counsellor, friend or family member about how you are feeling. If you are actively suicidal you need to go to the ER and get help and support from them.
All the bestHealth Question & Answer
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You haven't lost your mother. She'll be back in your life before you know it. I know it seems as though she's cut you off forever, but if you wait for just a little while, she'll call you or send you an email.
In the meantime, know this: Your mom being out of your life all this time--and right now--has everything to do with her and nothing to do with you. Nothing.
Any mother who can so easily move away from her child, who isn't trying to see her child as often as possible and who isn't willing to forgive anything and understand anything in order to keep her child in her life HAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HER.
So say to yourself, "This is only temporary." Repeat as often as necessary.
Go thank your dad for being there for you when your mother wasn't. Tell him how you feel. Let him help you.Health Question & Answer
In the meantime, know this: Your mom being out of your life all this time--and right now--has everything to do with her and nothing to do with you. Nothing.
Any mother who can so easily move away from her child, who isn't trying to see her child as often as possible and who isn't willing to forgive anything and understand anything in order to keep her child in her life HAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HER.
So say to yourself, "This is only temporary." Repeat as often as necessary.
Go thank your dad for being there for you when your mother wasn't. Tell him how you feel. Let him help you.Health Question & Answer
Hi
Your mum is being very unreasonable towards you. The situations are different and she should be understanding, but she clearly isnt.
Could you write a letter to her explaining exactly what happened, explain that you do want a mother just at that time you where upset and hurt. Tell her that you love her etc, and want contact, and let her get back to you.
Can you talk to a school counsellor, friend or family member about how you are feeling. If you are actively suicidal you need to go to the ER and get help and support from them.
All the bestHealth Question & Answer
Your mum is being very unreasonable towards you. The situations are different and she should be understanding, but she clearly isnt.
Could you write a letter to her explaining exactly what happened, explain that you do want a mother just at that time you where upset and hurt. Tell her that you love her etc, and want contact, and let her get back to you.
Can you talk to a school counsellor, friend or family member about how you are feeling. If you are actively suicidal you need to go to the ER and get help and support from them.
All the bestHealth Question & Answer
I had a friend whose mother was really messed up (not that yours necessarily is), and it affected her really badly. She would move them about with her boyfriends, and the result is my friend - a dynamic personality at the best of times - got hospitalized and treated for manic depression. And it completely wasn't her fault. For some people, parenting doesn't come easily to them. You haven't lost your mother, and it doesn't mean like she doesn't love you or anything, but some mothers don't get their kids. She shouldn't have said those things, and as the mother she is supposed to be the grown up, but in truth, it seems like you have to be the mature one. Let her cool down, but you're going to have to accept the fact that she is not a traditional mom, no matter what you want her to be. You can't change your mother, even when she is at fault. Just take satisfaction knowing you're in the right. Maybe you should talk to a bereavement counselor about the death of your friend - it's bound to affect you. You and your mom will make it up.
I hope you feel better soon xxx :)Health Question & Answer
I hope you feel better soon xxx :)Health Question & Answer
Whatever you are going through, dont't give up, for one thing it is easy to give up just because life has thrown you a bad lemon, but tough it out. You are not alone, I have thought about it before when life was really unfair, but then I would say to myself that is a selfish thing to do, because I would be leaving the people who love me, and yes your mother loves you, even though she is too selfish to realize it you are her daughter and you should come first in her life, I hope you are close with your father. Because you should lean on him for support, and if you guys are not close there are programs to help you get over whatever you are feeling, and people who care about can help you too. And I am so sorry that you just lost a close friend, but you have got to hold on, because this period of unhappyness will eventually fade away. Are you a christian.? Lean to the lord for support he will help you through it as well. You have your whole life to live, this will pass. And one day your mother will wake up and be glad that she got the chance to apologize to you, and trust me you would want to be here to see it. So smile, and? grieve for your friend in a positive way and lean on your family members or someone for the support that you need, if you truly dont have anybody again there are people out there that can fill your life up with hope and promise. Go on the internet and look for someone that is near where you live, and they can help you. Good Luck! I Hope I have helped you! P.S. You need too heal yourself, and if talking to your mother adds to your grief, then right now while you are healing, maybe you need to limited your conversations with her, just until you are very secure with yourself, and those bad feelings of killing yourself are a foggy memory. And just because your mother is not speaking to you right now, does not mean that is foreverHealth Question & Answer
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