Are these things normal?!


Question: Are these things normal.?
The last month, I've been feeling sad. Lonely, fat, and pessimistic. This happens about every other month. Sometimes I'll feel really lonely and feel like dying. Sometimes I think about death, but never truly considered suicide. When I think about life in general, I feel like it's all pointless and bullsh**. Whenever I'm not with friends or in school, I feel lonesome and terrible. A lot of times, I feel fat and ugly. But sometimes, I feel good. Sometimes I'm in really giggly moods and happy. Sometimes I get really excited and I feel like my brain's going too fast. Some days are really good and they're happy days that are a lot of fun. Some days I just get miserable and I don't know why.

Some days I'm really really hungry and I eat too much, some days I don't feel like eating at all.

A lot of times, I feel tired, even if I've gotten enough rest. But it's usually hard to fall asleep right away, sometimes it takes 1-2+ hours.

When I'm around people I don't know, I get really shy. I barely talk and it's hard for me to make friends. I want to make friends, but it's just too hard to talk to people.

I do well in school, but lately its hard for me to concentrate. Instead of listening, I'll zone off and think about everything else.



Why have all these things have been happening.?Health Question & Answer


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First off, nothing is ever "normal". If you are asking if all people feel down on themselves -- Yes, they do. Depression is something that everyone goes through at some point, and I would say people worry about 10% of their lives.

Some basic questions would help me out a little. How old are you.? How is your relations with your family.? Do you have a boyfriend.? Do you really think that you are obese, and if you do not mind me asking how tall are you and how much do you weigh.?

Your comments, "Sometimes I get really excited and I feel like my brain's going too fast, A lot of times, I feel tired, even if I've gotten enough rest. But it's usually hard to fall asleep right away, sometimes it takes 1-2+ hours, its hard for me to concentrate. Instead of listening, I'll zone off and think about everything else" makes me think of ADD. I have ADD and those things stuck out as signs. But also, the jump in moods also sounds like Bi-Polar disorder. I do not want you to jump to any conclusions just by my statements. It is, however, important, because if you just went to your doctor and told him you were depressed and he put you on an anti-depressant and you were bi-polar there could be bad results.

So many things happen when you are young. Everyone goes through what you are going through now and again. But, if this is becoming more of a constant then you need to seek help, which is what you are doing here. If any of the questions I asked were to personal to post here, you can directly e-mail me by going through my account. I need to get more info from ya though before I could really help.Health Question & Answer

it happens to me to. if you are a teen it is normalHealth Question & Answer

"Why have all these things been happening to me.?"

What you are experiencing is normal for allot of teens. Right now your in the awkward stage where your finding out your identity. Who you are and where you stand in life. It sounds like you have a poor self image of yourself which isn't good. I am a guy and let me tell you i rather hang around a girl that's nice than a really mean pretty girl any day. It sounds like you are a fun person allot of the time from what you said which is good. To fix your poor self image realize that it's a persons character and qualities that matters most. Everyone's beauty turns grey and wrinkly and does'n't last. Character and your good qualities can last a life time. So focus on building up a good godly character that's more focused on who you are and what you stand for than what you look like. Because surely looks are vanity and fly away and leave you.

For your physical health try walking 30 min- 1 hour everyday it will do wonders. Keep a positive attitude and know Jesus loves you just the way you are you dont have to change how you look cause he always loves you. God blessHealth Question & Answer

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