What is wrong with a 38 year old woman......?!


Question: What is wrong with a 38 year old woman.......?
striving to have the body of a 20 something year old. I'm getting a lot of criticism it seems by people who I feel should be encouraging me.
AM I ALONE IN THIS DESIRE.?.?.?.?Health Question & Answer


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There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you doing whatever you can to improve yourself if that's what makes you feel better!! Don't ever let anyone discourage you from becoming a better you...they're probably just jealous!!! GOOD LUCK HUN :)Health Question & Answer

There is nothing wrong with a 38 year old woman wanting to have a body of a 20 year old, but if that 38 year old women is dressing like a 20 year old, then that is where criticism could come into it. I say if a 38 year old has a good body and wears age appropriate clothes, then good luck to you. Health Question & Answer

Really now, if you think about it, what does a body of a 20 year old look like.? Look around you, they are all sizes and shapes and most are out of shape.
Your strive should be to live a healthier life, whether that calls for you to lose weight and get in shape. Definitely that will make you look good, make you feel good about yourself and the envy of some.
This criticism probably comes from people who believe you can't do it. If you believe in yourself, just do it. Health Question & Answer

I think trying to have a great body is a good thing. However......trying to get a body of a 20 year old and trying to dress like a 20 year old are not good things. You have to embrace your age. There is nothing at all wrong with saying "hey I want to look good for my age and feel good about my body" but modeling your goal on a 20 year old is not going to help you and it may cause criticism from people who think you are trying to be someone your not. XxHealth Question & Answer

I too desire to have a body of a 20 yr old woman. However I would not want the disadvantages that come with it. Life's uncertainty as one of the biggest ones or poor choice judgment.
But I have to settle for my wife whom is wise and loved with all my heart.
I agree with CAL I like women in the 30s they are the BEST.Health Question & Answer

My mother is 47 and after I left for college three years ago she decided to join the gym and get back in shape because she had extra time. She looks amazing now and people seem to say things like "you're dwindling away" when in all reality they are jealous! Be proud that you are doing something for yourself..and remember, it's not only about looking like a 20 year old, it's about feeling like one too! Tell them you're being healthy and that it WILL increase your life span. Health Question & Answer

Because people think you're past your prime and you're just embarassing yourself by trying to go against time. Unfortunately, people think women your age should fit into 'mother' mode. It is kind of the same attitude when you see older men with sports cars, or dyed hair with grey roots showing, or with muscle shirts on trying to get buff. Health Question & Answer

Most people want to look their best but are you doin this for yourself or a man.? Maybe they don't want you to be disappointed if you don't attain your goal. How old do you look now.? Even if you had the body of a twenty year old you're not twenty. Just try to look your best!Health Question & Answer

Are you trying to act like a 20-year old and not a 38-year old......or are you exercising to get a 20-year old body, If they are criticizing, seems like you acting like a 20-year old, and afraid of growing older.Health Question & Answer

There is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best as long as you are healthy and do not become obsessive about food, weight, exercise Enjoy life; and if that means having an awesome body then so be it! Good luck to you!Health Question & Answer

You do what's healthy for you. your body will tell you if it's wrong. If you're talking cosmetic surgery, then that's another question. Can you afford it.? Will it look weird.? Consider what others have gone through.Health Question & Answer

Nothing wrong with bettering yourself at all. IF you need it. For me to better my body would require taking my brain and stickin it in a 20 something Muscle Beach dudes head. TA-DA!!! Instant better body 4 me :DHealth Question & Answer

Everyone wants to have the perfect body. Don't listen to anyone who tells you different. Good for you. Their just jealous that your a hottieHealth Question & Answer

I think it's normal.
A little unrealisitic, but a lot of middle-aged women feel that way.Health Question & Answer

Nothing worng with lookin good. Being healthy is great. Just don't hurt yourself trying to look like a 20 year old and you'll do fine.Health Question & Answer

They say 30 is the new 20 right.? 40 is the new 30...etc.

Just because you get older, doesn't mean you have to let yourself go. Health Question & Answer

Im 26 and I think 38 is the best age for women. I have always been attracted to women in the 36-39 age range.Health Question & Answer

nothings wrong reallyHealth Question & Answer

do it. there just jealous that they cant do it. theres nothing wrong with that. we all want to look better!Health Question & Answer

there is nothing wrong with that.
just don't dress like a teenager.Health Question & Answer

Good for you
Look at a the fat bastards
I think its a great thingHealth Question & Answer

nothing reallyHealth Question & Answer

not alone, but let's get real!!!Health Question & Answer

there's nothing wrong with thatHealth Question & Answer

Well it depends...are you trying to dress like a 20 year old too.? Then I could see their pointHealth Question & Answer

Everyone wants to look good!Health Question & Answer

they are haters.Health Question & Answer

wear thongsHealth Question & Answer

they dont want u to succeed .....take no noticeHealth Question & Answer



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