This dude wants to take me away for the weekend should i go help?!


Question: This dude wants to take me away for the weekend should i go help.?
I admitted to my boy how my cousin used to make me perform bj's for him and his buddies he asked was I bi I said yes. He offered to take me out of town so I can really open up to him and ttell him everything. I just don't know if I gave him the wrong impression or not help.... he is a person I respect don't want to offend himHealth Question & Answer


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Sounds like a predator who was handed a wounded baby gazelle. You told this guy you were a victim of your cousin, and apparently were able to be forced to do sex acts. This guy instead of being considerate wants to take you away for a weekend to "open up". Get real, dude, he wants to have his way with you and be in control of you while satisfying his sexual appetite. You need to say no, firmly. If he wants to talk, you can do that anywhere. Don't need to go "away for the weekend" that only means one thing- he wants to have sex. And you sound like an easy target to him.
I'd suggest you get some counseling to get through these hardships you endured, and to help buck up your self confidence. Just having to ask on Yahoo if you should go or not shows you lack personal self confidence to make the decision on your own, while clearly indicating that your real deep down choice is "NO, I don't want to go away with this guy."Health Question & Answer

take you away for the weekend... hummmm... not a great idea,,, suggest a discussion over a nice meal, if he has ulterior motives you will find out then ;-)

good luck ;-)Health Question & Answer

No don't go. You may get into a position that would be a disaster. Stay in town and go to Burger King.Health Question & Answer

No way would I go.
If this guy wants to talk, do it someplace near home, preferably public.Health Question & Answer

go.. its good to open it up when your out of town.. just BROKE BACK MOUNTAIN.. hahahahaha..Health Question & Answer

Whoa! This guy sees an easy mark, don't go. He wants one thing and will do what he can to get it.Health Question & Answer

Yeah i would go, if he cares for you enough and he does something and you say no and etc he will stopHealth Question & Answer

wow...this question is just like Brokeback Mountain.....lolHealth Question & Answer



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