Is this a loser thing to do?!


Question: Is this a loser thing to do.?
Im in highschool and there is this guy who i used to sit next to in class but now we dont sit near each other (teacher moved our seats). when we sat next to each other, we talked a little only about our classwork...he would always help me. he always stares at me and brushes up against me in class and he would get really shy around me and act kinda strange around me. so i am almost 100% sure he likes me. anyways, i am scared to tell him how i feel. and i think he is terrified of me rejecting him because i dont flirt so he doesnt have a clue i like him. we walk past each other in the halls when noone else is around and dont even say a word to each other because he usually pretends he doesnt see me. i think he thinks i think hes an idiot because of some stupid things he has done around me. and it was awkward at times when we sat next to each other..but... i like him alot.

i was thinking of sending him a facebook message saying...can i have your phone number i kinda wanna talk to you. and then call him and tell him i like him.

would this be a loser thing to do.? im too scared to do it in person. when we sat next to each other, i tried to gain the courage to ask him to study with me, but i completely chickened out. i like him alot. so i am thinking calling him is my last option.? is this too desperate and weird to do.?

my other option is to go up to him at school and directly ask him if he likes me...i know he likes me but i dont want to make him very uncomfortable. what should i do.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I say go ahead and ask for his number, give him yours too (it will make him warm up to you a little more)

Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel (no matter how scared you are) because he likes you.

And IM, or facebook are great places to start.

Best of luck ;)Health Question & Answer

Well if you never really talk to him in rl then just tell him your phone number on facebooks Then if he likes you then well yeah. But if you do see him in rl then do it for real. Cuz you'll have more situations like this where you can't just send a dude a message and you'll want to be able to ask the next guy that comes along for his numberHealth Question & Answer

I AGREE WITH FACEBOOK N GET HIS NUMBER
BUT MAYBE U SHOULD JUST START OFF AS FRIENDS...
DONT SAY NOTHING ABOUT HOW U FEEL OR HIM LIKE-ING U
BECAUSE HEL PROBABLY BE SCARED AND THINK UR WEIRD JUST ASK FOR HIS NUMBER ON FACEBOOK N TALK TO HIM FOR ABOUT A WEEK OR SO THEN SEE HOW IT GOES!!Health Question & Answer

Thats a little weird but I would say that first you should show him signs, like look at him or smile as he walks by, just show him that you like him.Health Question & Answer

Yes typing very long questions in yahoo answers is a very loserish thing to do...


Short version plz...Health Question & Answer

go through facebookHealth Question & Answer

Do it in real life... its always good to see the reaction of the person
and u don't want to start things off in an impersonal noteHealth Question & Answer



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