My 10 year old son wants to what masturbation is. Is he to young ? If so what do i tell him?!
Question: My 10 year old son wants to what masturbation is.. Is he to young .? If so what do i tell him.?
I have a older son <16> should i get him to tell him.?
P..S.. i never been good with talking about these types of situations..Health Question & Answer
P..S.. i never been good with talking about these types of situations..Health Question & Answer
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wait til eh a little bit older.... my little bro <11> is asking about masturbation, periods etc i just say talk to mum.... get of my back then lol .... on the other hand he seems comfortable asking you about it ( he may already know whta it is but wants reinforcment for his dad) so obviously he is ready fro an answer so i wud tell him .... this sounds lame buyt sit him down and go thru the whole "sex" "masturbation" talk .... hope can help :)Health Question & Answer
I can see how it's difficult.. A 10yr old asking doesn't mean he's going to start right away, but it's likely that at some point he will..
The real predicament is in the morality of it.. If you're OK with knowing your children will join the majority of the human race in acting sexually with themselves, then simply be open and honest about what it is, why people do it (sensation, stress relief and to reduce the chances of prostate cancer :P)..
We're all born with genitals, and it's never too young to understand what they are and what they can and someday will do.. The important thing is to explain the reasons for responsibility in their functions..
You can save the talk about pornography for later, or include it if you wish...... Just make sure he understands that it's OK to admire, but still respect women who don't choose to be admired for their bodies..Health Question & Answer
The real predicament is in the morality of it.. If you're OK with knowing your children will join the majority of the human race in acting sexually with themselves, then simply be open and honest about what it is, why people do it (sensation, stress relief and to reduce the chances of prostate cancer :P)..
We're all born with genitals, and it's never too young to understand what they are and what they can and someday will do.. The important thing is to explain the reasons for responsibility in their functions..
You can save the talk about pornography for later, or include it if you wish...... Just make sure he understands that it's OK to admire, but still respect women who don't choose to be admired for their bodies..Health Question & Answer
You should be 100% honest with your son, and tell him yourself, so then he feels that he can talk to you about anything back..
It is so important to have an open and honest relationship.. In fact I think you should even tell your son that you are nervous and embarrassed to talk to him about it, but you want him to know he can speak to you anytime with out fear, so that is why you are giving him the honor back..Health Question & Answer
It is so important to have an open and honest relationship.. In fact I think you should even tell your son that you are nervous and embarrassed to talk to him about it, but you want him to know he can speak to you anytime with out fear, so that is why you are giving him the honor back..Health Question & Answer
I think you should tell him.. I don't think it's a good idea to ask your older son to tell him because it's important for parents to talk to their kids about these things..
My daughter is 8 and I explained it to her when she asked.. You can keep it simple: you don't have to tell him all the different methods and positions or whatever! Remember to tell him that girls do it too......Health Question & Answer
My daughter is 8 and I explained it to her when she asked.. You can keep it simple: you don't have to tell him all the different methods and positions or whatever! Remember to tell him that girls do it too......Health Question & Answer
Well chances are that it may be a little akward for your son to talk to you about masturbation.. I think having your 16 year old talk to him man to man about it would be good for him.. He knows whats its like more than a woman! But if you are a father then yes i would tell him yourself.. I think that he may be a little too young to know, but it depends on his maturaty level.. If you feel its not the best time to tell him then just try to ignore it until he forget.. If hes persistant then yeah......sure......tell him......lolHealth Question & Answer
no you shouldn't get your older son to tell him.. it is your job! just because you aren't good at it doesn't mean you don't have to do it.. your 10 year old is way too young to be masturbating and you need to talk to him.. if you get your 16 yr old to do it instead of you because you are too scared then you are showing them both that it is ok to hand off your resonsibilities to someone else..Health Question & Answer
HEY!
i acctually think that getting your 16 year old son to tell him, iam also 16, and i wouldn't mind telling him, what you dont want to do is for you to tell him if your not good at talking about that kind of stuff, it just might come out better from ur 16 yr old son thats all..
and dont put this hole situation off either, coz considering he is ten he is at the stage when kids are getting curious and start to do these kinds of things, also he might get the wrong idea if someone from school tells him..
good luck..
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i acctually think that getting your 16 year old son to tell him, iam also 16, and i wouldn't mind telling him, what you dont want to do is for you to tell him if your not good at talking about that kind of stuff, it just might come out better from ur 16 yr old son thats all..
and dont put this hole situation off either, coz considering he is ten he is at the stage when kids are getting curious and start to do these kinds of things, also he might get the wrong idea if someone from school tells him..
good luck..
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Time for the birds-n-bees lesson..
Time to break the ice..
Take the plunge..
Grasp the nettle..
Go where angels fear to tread..
Time to be a man my son, etc.. etc ..etc....
OR ---------------- chicken out..
Pass the buck..
Call the wife..
Ignore it..
Play deaf and hope it goes away..
BUT --------------- it won't, so be a responsible and caring dad.. Treat the subject lightly and calmly with the aid of the PC for 10 mins.. then leave him to it saying, "Well there you are, son.. Anything you're not sure of, can't find on the PC, don't hesitate to ask me.. We all go through it - it's Nature at work.."Health Question & Answer
Time to break the ice..
Take the plunge..
Grasp the nettle..
Go where angels fear to tread..
Time to be a man my son, etc.. etc ..etc....
OR ---------------- chicken out..
Pass the buck..
Call the wife..
Ignore it..
Play deaf and hope it goes away..
BUT --------------- it won't, so be a responsible and caring dad.. Treat the subject lightly and calmly with the aid of the PC for 10 mins.. then leave him to it saying, "Well there you are, son.. Anything you're not sure of, can't find on the PC, don't hesitate to ask me.. We all go through it - it's Nature at work.."Health Question & Answer
Hello mother, as a son I have to inform you i am addicted to masturbation..because my parents never loved me and cared about me, well................my mother did,she is the most important thing in my life......she cares about me but my father doesn't like AT ALL............
I am addicted because my father thinks I should never know what is sex..
I am 14 year old..I have been addicted since I was 12..
He still does not know that I know what sex is..............
Tell him, but care about him and love him so EVEN IF HE HAS ANY PROBLEM TELLS YOU !!!! NOT HIS FRIENDS....
as your 14 year old son.......... thank youHealth Question & Answer
I am addicted because my father thinks I should never know what is sex..
I am 14 year old..I have been addicted since I was 12..
He still does not know that I know what sex is..............
Tell him, but care about him and love him so EVEN IF HE HAS ANY PROBLEM TELLS YOU !!!! NOT HIS FRIENDS....
as your 14 year old son.......... thank youHealth Question & Answer
In my opinion that is a littile young to know, but I think your 16 year old should know.. Tell your youngest to wait until he's 12 or 13 to know.. But if your youngest is getting too interested in the subject, see if your school has a sex ed program, start one or find one to explain it to him.. I do not recomend telling him at this age.. Good luck with your decision..Health Question & Answer
Oh, this is tough,
You can try as others above said let like his brother or friend talks to him about it, without letting him know that its arranged!.... if knw listen to a guy! its alright for him, but from a parent and he is 10 years only, i do not prefer it...... you can talk around the subject still.. i believe he is a bit young......NOT YET!Health Question & Answer
You can try as others above said let like his brother or friend talks to him about it, without letting him know that its arranged!.... if knw listen to a guy! its alright for him, but from a parent and he is 10 years only, i do not prefer it...... you can talk around the subject still.. i believe he is a bit young......NOT YET!Health Question & Answer
Yes.. But tell only as much as he asks.. Do not go overboard, he may freak out when he starts it himself.. Lots of damage is done to young boys with misinformation.. Some have been known to commit suicide from the info given them and they then start masturbating..Health Question & Answer
Well, I would just be honest.. I would tell my son at 10.. But if you don't want to tell him, just say....
"I will tell you when you're older"
thats what my parents did to me.... and i turned out ok, i think..Health Question & Answer
"I will tell you when you're older"
thats what my parents did to me.... and i turned out ok, i think..Health Question & Answer
tell him the truth because i can almost gurantee he'll find out when he gets older.. it may be easier if you have another guy tell him brother, etc..Health Question & Answer
get the older son to tell him that way if they r closer it can spare you the awkwardness if they are close then this will work perfectlyHealth Question & Answer
Yes this time he is trying .. no he is not to young..you tell him nothing..Health Question & Answer
Tell him the truth, but in a complicated way so that he won't understand you..Health Question & Answer
tell him he'll eventually figure it out......Health Question & Answer
Damn, have you been keeping them under a rock..Health Question & Answer
he asked you if he could.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?/ weird..
yeah have him talk to your older son..
awkward.. lolHealth Question & Answer
yeah have him talk to your older son..
awkward.. lolHealth Question & Answer
don't tell any body about the mastrubation its not some thing good; and if some body ask tell him: WHat What this word mean.?.? i don't know my son..Health Question & Answer
Give him a book..Health Question & Answer
I'd just say I'll tell you when you're older........ like 20.. I think he's a little young..Health Question & Answer
Im so glad I have girls......good luck!Health Question & Answer
yeah i'd get your older son to tell him.. but it'd be better if u told himHealth Question & Answer
if u dont tell him he'll just ask his brother or a friend......do wat u think is best after all u are the fatherHealth Question & Answer
tell him........TELL HIM NOW!!!!
i learned when i was 9Health Question & Answer
i learned when i was 9Health Question & Answer
show him an example lolHealth Question & Answer
tell him, i found out at 8!Health Question & Answer
lol tell him its a type of unicornHealth Question & Answer
go ahead
he might already do it
i learned in the first gradeHealth Question & Answer
he might already do it
i learned in the first gradeHealth Question & Answer