Is that normal...?!


Question: Is that normal.......?
i've a close friend from school.... i noticed that he likes to hang around with me, alone...... whenever i bring other classmates along when we hang out, he seems bothered and tense...... he likes to touch me (shoulder, belly etc) when we talk and he likes to look at my lips...... he is okay otherwise...... i currently have a steady gf but he doesn't...... sometimes i wonder is this normal behaviour.......? thanks......Health Question & Answer


Answers:
It sounds like he's really fond of you.. He might want to keep you more to himself because he has a crush on you.. If he seems to be touching you more intimately than you expect, it might be because he was raised in a family that touched a lot.. It sounds like you're comfortable with it though..

I wouldn't draw any conclusions based on his girlfriend status.. You're both too young to be using labels like "gay" or "straight".. It's possible he has a sexual interest in you, but that doesn't mean he's gay, just that he's young and curious.. Young guys often sex play with each other as they're growing up, even if they end up straight after all.. Sometimes it's easier to try it out first with your own, familiar sex.. And if there's a crush involved that makes it more likely.. If you think that's the way things are going, you might want to break the ice, clear the air, and bring up the subject.. It will be better to get it out in the open and have you each know how the other feels about the idea..Health Question & Answer

even though you provided a lot of information, it is difficult to say what his thoughts or intentions are.. this could be normal to him.. he might not relate to many people and he feels he has something in common with you.. i know i am much more comfortable around certain people.. i don't want to scare you, but there is a possibility your friend is bi or gay and has a crush on you.. i personally wouldn't let it bother you if he was because he is still the same person he always was.. if his behavior makes you uncomfortable, you will need to talk to him.. i have some close friends and we do things that would appear weird to outsiders and we don't act the same around others.. no matter what happens, don't do anything crazy or destroy the friendship.. i hope this helps..Health Question & Answer

i think maybe he realy looks up 2 u an maybe has a crush on u.. i have realy one close friend and we known each other a long time an we do some friend things that prob wuld look weird if other dudes seen us.. just like playin around not afraid to get close or touch an stuff but i think cuase ur friend gets botered when ur with other classmates it mite be different.. we have our own friends 2 cause we go 2 differnt schools an thats cool.. if it dont bother u then maybe u should let it go.. but if it bothers u you should talk 2 him cause it wuld be a shame to lose ur friendship if he keeps like fallin 4 u..Health Question & Answer

Does he have a hard time making friends.? that could be the reason why he's bothered around others, or maybe the friends you hang out with he doesn't like.. also maybe he's a real touch,touchy feelly type of person where they feel the need to touch you.. I mean you might need to give mroe details so we can really know whats going on.. But if he's your friend, thats all that really matters.. Hope this helps!Health Question & Answer

doesnt sound like he likes girls, sounds like he likes you.. he may be struggling with the gay thing.. if you are uncomfortable with him talk to him about itHealth Question & Answer

Yeah he just might be curious..
I think everyone is at some point in their life..
I know I use to wonder about girls..
Never touched one though......Health Question & Answer

I would just be repeating what all the guys before me have said..
What a great bunch of answers..Health Question & Answer



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