First time anal play (male)?!
Question: First time anal play (male).?
ok so i just bought a rly nice dildo for myself (yes im a guy im not gay so please just have the decency to not leave offensive comments just for the sake of degrading someone youve never met) and i just thought perhaps i could get some tips or something on how i could make the whole use of it go somewhat......smoother.. i guess first off id like to ask what i should do to get the darn thing in there......ill be dammed (yes i spelled that incorrectly i dont like to be censored on here) if it didnt just slip away every time i tried to get it in, other than once.. also, on the subject of pain, when i did finally get it in, the sumbeach hurt like a mofo.. this is normal, right.? if not i guess i should be worried maybe.?
any and all help would be appreciated.. also, if there is somewhere else that i could submit this question with more help that someone knows of, that would be great too..Health Question & Answer
any and all help would be appreciated.. also, if there is somewhere else that i could submit this question with more help that someone knows of, that would be great too..Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Man you are one brave straight man.. I am happy that you are in touch with your sexuality and that you know what you like and what you are interested in exploring.. Very brave and I must say hot too..
My first and most important suggestion is to get a good lubrication product such as Elbow Grease or Lube.. Use this on your new toy and your hole.. I sincerely doubt that you will be able to put the entire toy in you so you will have to slowly work on it.. The most important thing to remember is to relax and slowly loosen yourself up..
Gradually working the toy in you and enjoying the pleasure as you go is what anal play is all about.. Maybe get a hand mirror so that you can watch your progress.. Nothing feels better than stimulating your prostrate, which is exactly what you will be doing with you toy and anal play..
You will naturally feel some pain, however you should slow down or back off if the pain becomes to unbearable.. The key here to playing with your toy is to slowly work or insert the toy in your anal area.. If you go to fast you risk the possibility of tearing your anal area and that is not a good thing..
Good Luck man, have fun and enjoy your new toy!!!Health Question & Answer
My first and most important suggestion is to get a good lubrication product such as Elbow Grease or Lube.. Use this on your new toy and your hole.. I sincerely doubt that you will be able to put the entire toy in you so you will have to slowly work on it.. The most important thing to remember is to relax and slowly loosen yourself up..
Gradually working the toy in you and enjoying the pleasure as you go is what anal play is all about.. Maybe get a hand mirror so that you can watch your progress.. Nothing feels better than stimulating your prostrate, which is exactly what you will be doing with you toy and anal play..
You will naturally feel some pain, however you should slow down or back off if the pain becomes to unbearable.. The key here to playing with your toy is to slowly work or insert the toy in your anal area.. If you go to fast you risk the possibility of tearing your anal area and that is not a good thing..
Good Luck man, have fun and enjoy your new toy!!!Health Question & Answer
Patience and practise.. And lots of lubricant.. And if it still hurts, don't do it any more.. Some rectums just won't stretch to accommodate foreign objects like a vagina will (which is designed for such activities) without tearing.. And be sure you can retrieve your "toy" once it's inside of you, which may be impossible if it's completely covered with lubricant.. A live penis would be more suitable for the purpose, and much safer..Health Question & Answer
You've gotten some good advice here so I'll just add:
Hopefully, you're not starting with the super-sized.. The best way to get used to anal play is to start with your fingers - smaller and easier to control.. Dildos come in a vast arrangement of sizes - you probably found that out - so again, start with smaller sizes and as it starts to feel pleasurable to you, you can decide if you want to work your way up...... so to speak..
have fun!Health Question & Answer
Hopefully, you're not starting with the super-sized.. The best way to get used to anal play is to start with your fingers - smaller and easier to control.. Dildos come in a vast arrangement of sizes - you probably found that out - so again, start with smaller sizes and as it starts to feel pleasurable to you, you can decide if you want to work your way up...... so to speak..
have fun!Health Question & Answer
Well......if you worry that it will go inside too much......either get a huge one and attach it to a rope so you wont have problems getting it out..
if that gives you pleasure......go ahead........but that's not the best area to please yourself......for in the end......you will be tempted to be penetrated by a man, then you will not be gay......but just likes to be penetrated by a man..Health Question & Answer
if that gives you pleasure......go ahead........but that's not the best area to please yourself......for in the end......you will be tempted to be penetrated by a man, then you will not be gay......but just likes to be penetrated by a man..Health Question & Answer
it's ur first time putting sumthing IN ur ***........it's gonna hurt
as for gettin it in..........grip it tight towards the top and ease it in
and nothing"s normal anymore so dont bother asking haha
and i get that u arent gay
i have a str8 friend who loves for his gf to finger him and stuff
but he cant stand dildos since they look and feel like *****Health Question & Answer
as for gettin it in..........grip it tight towards the top and ease it in
and nothing"s normal anymore so dont bother asking haha
and i get that u arent gay
i have a str8 friend who loves for his gf to finger him and stuff
but he cant stand dildos since they look and feel like *****Health Question & Answer
you need lots of lube to begin with then slowly insert your dildo, when you feel pain pull it out flex you *** muscles until it doesn't hurt any more, then start over, after a couple slow insertions you should be able to take it all the way in and at this time it will be all pleasure HAVE FUN!!!Health Question & Answer
What a great question! Something I should have asked a long time ago, but didn't.. I'm kinda looking forward to the time when I can take a real penis in the rear, so the answers you're getting help a lot.. ThanksHealth Question & Answer
everyone who commented on this is gay...... excluding myself of courseHealth Question & Answer
take it slow and lube, lube lube and lube somemoreHealth Question & Answer
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never tried that befor but wen i bout my gf hers she put alot of lube on itHealth Question & Answer
OK ,you are gonna explore more of your body now:way great..
There are two muscles in your anus:sphincters:they keep it closed and they need to be relaxed to get a dildo in:so just lubing it and pushing it in is not clever at all:that will hurt like hell:best is to lube a finger and stretch the anus a bit,if that goes well use two fingers:you could in the mean time masturbate and see how that feels:try to move to the base of your penis:there is your g-spot :the prostate..Well if you can manage the two fingers :try to relax the muscles inside and slowly insert the dildo:and move it in and out to relax the muscles more..It will drive you nuts:it gives so much intense pleasure..
Then push it in a bit deeper:it should not hurt at all:maybe the first few times,but you get used to it..
Practice playing with it:and masturbate at the same time..
You 'll have the time of your life..
Regards:Flash..Health Question & Answer
There are two muscles in your anus:sphincters:they keep it closed and they need to be relaxed to get a dildo in:so just lubing it and pushing it in is not clever at all:that will hurt like hell:best is to lube a finger and stretch the anus a bit,if that goes well use two fingers:you could in the mean time masturbate and see how that feels:try to move to the base of your penis:there is your g-spot :the prostate..Well if you can manage the two fingers :try to relax the muscles inside and slowly insert the dildo:and move it in and out to relax the muscles more..It will drive you nuts:it gives so much intense pleasure..
Then push it in a bit deeper:it should not hurt at all:maybe the first few times,but you get used to it..
Practice playing with it:and masturbate at the same time..
You 'll have the time of your life..
Regards:Flash..Health Question & Answer
Well dude sorry but I think that is a little gay.. Well look get some electric tape on the end of it for grip, then use lube all over it and ram it in, if you put it in gently it would hurt more..Health Question & Answer