PEOPLE if my boyfriend doesn't like givin' me oral sex, is there something wrong with me or w him?!
Question: PEOPLE if my boyfriend doesn't like givin' me oral sex, is there something wrong with me or w him.?
me and my boyfriend just started having sex, both of us lost our virginity with each other and we haven't had any other sexual activity with any other person, I think that is so sweet cuz even though we both dont have any experience we really enjoy it, but the thing that I was trying to get him giving me oral sex just like I do with him, he tried once and then like we talked and he told me he really didnt enjoy it and didnt like it much.. what do you think he doent want to do it.? is it his inexperience.? I really need someone's advice cuz Im kind of worried plaseHealth Question & Answer
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your boyfriend is probably just embarrassed because he isnt experienced.. maybe he thinks you are good at oral sex and he is affraid he wont be able to compare to you.. also he isnt used to being down there so he probably doesnt know what to do so he doesnt want to disappoint you.. my advice is just encourage him while he does it and let him know it feels good so he wont feel uncomfortable.. just like you probably felt awkward giving him head the first time he probably feels weird..Health Question & Answer
I am a guy, so I kinda understand.. I figure your BF is not in complete understanding of what you want.. You are talking equal treatment.. If you are giving him oral sex, then he should return it.. A question, do you enjoy giving him oral.? If you don't enjoy it, then tell him that.. If he still doesn't want to help you, tell him that you will not give him oral until he rethinks his attitude..Health Question & Answer
he just hasn't learned the finer things in life -
try going to one of the sites that sell sex aids - and see if you can find (they do make it) some flavoring you can put on -
also make sure you've just come out of the shower and are clean - nothing worse than a urine smell -
and don't expect him to go down there after he's finished - only before (men are not into that)Health Question & Answer
try going to one of the sites that sell sex aids - and see if you can find (they do make it) some flavoring you can put on -
also make sure you've just come out of the shower and are clean - nothing worse than a urine smell -
and don't expect him to go down there after he's finished - only before (men are not into that)Health Question & Answer
There is nothing wrong with either of u.. my boyfriend doesnt like it as he doesnt like the taste.. i wouldnt eat anything that i dont like and that is practically the same.. if the smell or taste makes him feel ill then he isnt enjoying it then he shouldnt do it!Health Question & Answer
It doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with either of you.. Some people just don't like the taste or the smell.. Nobody should be forced into something they don't want to do.. Some people like it and some people don't..Health Question & Answer
Neither.. It's a personal preference.. If you need oral sex, and he doesn't want to do that (and for many men it is too gross to go there) then you should find someone else..Health Question & Answer
Dont worry about it my girlfriend doesnt like me giving her oral but sometimes lets me to warm her up and rarley she gives it me but im not in a relationship just for sex its love that matter..Health Question & Answer
He's inexperienced, and might not like how you taste.. If you tell him how much it turns you on, he may do it anyway..Health Question & Answer
just tell him that you want to start oral sex and you want to suck his penis hope it work sexyHealth Question & Answer
its his inexperience ...... have you tried a little flavor gel and maybe try shaving down there....teach each otherHealth Question & Answer
maybe you need to clean the area that usually helpsHealth Question & Answer
yes..cause i don't know the pleasure of giving it..Health Question & Answer
with him, for sureHealth Question & Answer
Him........teach him a new word; reciprocity..Health Question & Answer