I don't understand.....maybe you can help.....For my husbands birthday I have offered to hire a stripper?!
Question: I don't understand..........maybe you can help..........For my husbands birthday I have offered to hire a stripper.?
to come to the house and perform for us........then later the three of us will have sex together..........I thought this was just about al men's fantasies.......? He says no........that he will watch but won't join in...........? what gives here.?Health Question & Answer
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Sounds like you met the male version of my wife.. My birthday will be August 1st.. Hire me the stripper and then you and I will have sex with her..Health Question & Answer
honestly, i hate the idea..
But if he doesn't want it, then it's just not want he wants,
and yeah, strippers normally just proform, not have sex with anyone.. thats what a Prostitute does..
But maybe if you want something like that, watch porn together and get it on with the two of you for some good ideas,
or buy some sexy outfits and put on a strip tease of your own for him, and make him go crazy, then later on have a great night because he'll be all worked up and in the mood after the strip teaseHealth Question & Answer
But if he doesn't want it, then it's just not want he wants,
and yeah, strippers normally just proform, not have sex with anyone.. thats what a Prostitute does..
But maybe if you want something like that, watch porn together and get it on with the two of you for some good ideas,
or buy some sexy outfits and put on a strip tease of your own for him, and make him go crazy, then later on have a great night because he'll be all worked up and in the mood after the strip teaseHealth Question & Answer
Fantasies can be different for every one, though someone will share whatever fantasy you can come up with..
In his case, his fantasy may entail being the voyeur type, and since it's another woman, he feels less intimidated.. There is nothing wrong with him, but be prepared for him to 'attack' you as soon as he can afterwards..
Sigh.. I was going to answer you with humour, but really this is a fascinating subject once you take the time to learn about it..Health Question & Answer
In his case, his fantasy may entail being the voyeur type, and since it's another woman, he feels less intimidated.. There is nothing wrong with him, but be prepared for him to 'attack' you as soon as he can afterwards..
Sigh.. I was going to answer you with humour, but really this is a fascinating subject once you take the time to learn about it..Health Question & Answer
I have always said I'd want 2 women at once but I might have to agree with your husband.. I might not be able to perform with another woman being as happily married as I am, but I would watch her with another woman as long as it was a purely physical thing.. I don't know why but that wouldn't seem like cheating to me.. But if she did it with another man she better find somewhere else to live..Health Question & Answer
Well I don't know him so it is hard to say.. As for me, I don't think I would perform well knowing that it was done for money.. I have nothing against the business, it just is not my thing, try getting someone you know who he likes to join you after the stripper leaves, he might be more comfortable that way, plus it would save a few bucks and you could have fun with a friend.. That is the best I've got.. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Why don't you just do with the stripper, and let him find an nice girlfriend to privately make Love with..
His birthday could make 4 people happy here now!
If you have a fantasy to be with a Lady, don't use yur Dudes birthday as a scheme, plan, and excuse to carry it out..
I don't even know why he wants to watch you.? I sure wouldn't........ What gives here.?Health Question & Answer
His birthday could make 4 people happy here now!
If you have a fantasy to be with a Lady, don't use yur Dudes birthday as a scheme, plan, and excuse to carry it out..
I don't even know why he wants to watch you.? I sure wouldn't........ What gives here.?Health Question & Answer
hes a keeper and not a dog
not all mens fantasies is to b with 2 women
he loves u and u should be thankful
and without judging
(to each their own)
it is still is a form of cheating (even if it is a woman)
u better think this way through before u go through w it
it may create problems for u's two later down the roadHealth Question & Answer
not all mens fantasies is to b with 2 women
he loves u and u should be thankful
and without judging
(to each their own)
it is still is a form of cheating (even if it is a woman)
u better think this way through before u go through w it
it may create problems for u's two later down the roadHealth Question & Answer
You da bomb......it was a nice thought.. Maybe he is just a bit old-fashioned at heart, who knows.? but he should be grateful for the thought..
Tony S had a great answer and has never received a "best answer".. Give him a break---whoever said yer hubby is gay is a moron......Health Question & Answer
Tony S had a great answer and has never received a "best answer".. Give him a break---whoever said yer hubby is gay is a moron......Health Question & Answer
Yep, I would just drop it and forget the stripper thing.. He obviously cares for you too much to have another woman in bed with the two of you..Health Question & Answer
It's not his thing..
Another thing, strippers usually don't just have sex with anyone.. Hopefully you've cleared the whole threesome with the stripper..Health Question & Answer
Another thing, strippers usually don't just have sex with anyone.. Hopefully you've cleared the whole threesome with the stripper..Health Question & Answer
Strippers don't get payed to have sex.. They're only entertainers.. If you want sex, go get a hooker.. I find it weird you would let your husband cheat in front of your eyes..Health Question & Answer
I see absolutly nothing wrong with him NOT wanting to be apart of it......more often than not,men love to watch a woman dance for them......but feel no need to act upon the sex part of the fantasy when more than two people are involved........xxxHealth Question & Answer
tell him to go out with his friends and i'll come over.. never been to a strip bar or anything so hell.. but we dont have to bump uglies you and i are spoken for..Health Question & Answer
i think that you are kinky and want that stripper for yourself
only !
( strippers generally do not f**k about, try a wh*re instead)Health Question & Answer
only !
( strippers generally do not f**k about, try a wh*re instead)Health Question & Answer
To each their own.. Why don't you strip for your husband and pleasure him..Health Question & Answer
predictable................thats what some guys really want,, I am not surprised....better that way for you anyway..don't worry he enjoyed himself !!Health Question & Answer
he is sick take him to the doctor......for his birthday....and I will come by and help you girls out..Health Question & Answer
Sorry.. Performance anxiety.. Maybe if you gave him a little JD first............Health Question & Answer
lesbian is a mans guilty pleasureHealth Question & Answer
well it isn't always so simple.. maybe he's just a bit embarrassed about it..Health Question & Answer
Wow can you say perv.?
How about you be the "stripper".?Health Question & Answer
How about you be the "stripper".?Health Question & Answer
He should find some help, I think he has some insecurity issues he keeps hidden..............Health Question & Answer
Guess he doesn't want to screw another woman,
thats a good thing..Health Question & Answer
thats a good thing..Health Question & Answer
i hate this idea
he might not be into it at all
maybe you could perform for him.?
just a thoughtHealth Question & Answer
he might not be into it at all
maybe you could perform for him.?
just a thoughtHealth Question & Answer
I can't add anything to those answers.. I had a good one but somebody already said it..Health Question & Answer
maybe he doesnt want a female stripper ......better get a male ;)Health Question & Answer
He's gay.. that's got to be it I mean, I don't know any man that would turn down an offer like that unless he is gay..Health Question & Answer
He's either gay or lying through his teethHealth Question & Answer
he would rather see you not some strnge personHealth Question & Answer
he's lyingHealth Question & Answer
Oh just give it a few minutes......he'll be in there! I don't doubt it in the least..Health Question & Answer