Guilt after masturbation?!


Question: Guilt after masturbation.?
Nearly each and every time, seconds after finishing masturbating i feel guilt like i have done wrong and have some sick addiction that cannot be fixed .? I know its normal and i don't even do it as often as some people, i do it about every 2-3 days.. But every day and ALOT of the time im constantly thinking about sex or something related to sex is that normal too because i am 15 and going through puberty is it the hormones aswell.. Coming on here to read alot of other peoples questions about the same thing that are my age make me feel better about it but still......keep thinking what i do is wrong..Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I had the same problem when i was younger..

It's a mixture of hormones and what you were 'conditioned' to believe about masturbation

it is not a sin
it is not bad
you are not a pervert

every single man and woman has masturbated
every adult you talk to masturbates AT LEAST once a week

you will grow out of this phase once you get more comfortable with your body and who you are

you have nothing to fear

masturbation is 100% natural and everyone does it



don't sweat it kidHealth Question & Answer

there is nothing to worry about.. well at the age of puberty masturbation in both boys and girls is normal beacause lots of changes are happening to your body, at this stage its a way of adjusting to the new changes occuring in your body and the most important part is to get to know your body better.. howerver masturbation is not something that should be let come automatic, cause that can affect your relationship mentaly later on.. but since you're still young its okay as far as you dont let it control you.. theres no need to be guilty cause its something both mentaly and scientific normal..
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It is sad the our society with its puritancial background has heaped so much guilt on so many.. And for no good reason, masturbation hurts no one.. In fact it is a healthy thing without damage or risk.. Like most all things it can be overdone, when it dominates a life it is not good but otherwise guilt should be eliminated.. [What is a Puritan.? Someone with a deep fear that somewhere, someone is enjoying themselves]Health Question & Answer

relax and think about it.... guilty to whom.? it's your body and giving yourself pleasure is nothing to feel guilty about.. Enjoy it as much and often as you need.. Maybe you need better privacy to feel more comfortable.? You are very normal and doing nothing wrong, it's a new experience and that's all.. Get into it and see how much better you feel afterwards..Health Question & Answer

Everyone feels that way at that age because at 15 nobody talks about it.. The older you get and realize that everyone does it the better you'll feel.. masterbating every 2-3 days is normal.. At your age I think alot of 15 yaer olds do it more than that.. I did! The guilt isn't usually the action but more the thoughts you have during it that might disturb you.. We all have them - don't worry!Health Question & Answer

It's amazing how many people on this thing just answer people to make them feel worse.. I want to help you..
Dont feel guilty! You are 15 and you are experimenting and its completely natural.. You are definitely not alone! Boys and girls your age do it and i know for a fact that a lot of guys boast or laugh about how often or long they do it..
You are making yourself feel good, what is wrong with that.? Please dont feel guilty, you are a normal hormonal teenage boy.. Relax with it and have fun exploring.. I hope i helped you overcome your guilt =)..Health Question & Answer

There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation, no matter what anyone might have told you in the past.. It it perfectly normal and is actually healthy.. It releases endorphins and relieves stress at the cost of a mess......that's about it.. A lot of people (me) jack off several times a day so you should get up to speed!! What is there to feel guilty about.? Go for it dude!!Health Question & Answer

ur age is such that u would have the quest for sex education..thus ur mind is preoccupied with such things..it's normal..
to get over i would advise to search the net on topics related to sex edu.. and gather as info as u can without discussing it with ur friends..do this when u have free arter finishing ur daily studies..remember if u skip ur studies for these things u will ruin ur life ..have self control at this age ..after few years u will become normal like others..
and decresa the frequency of ur masturbation toonce a week..this would help u overcome the guilt feeling ..
best of luck..Health Question & Answer

After you masturbate, you enter whats called a refractory period.. It is totally normal to feel guilty or like you hate sex in this time.. Its not wrong, but just realize that everyone masturbates - its natural and helps keep your hormones on an even keel..Health Question & Answer

well lets see, a lot of young guys feel embarassed by it or maybe its against your religion.? i dont know but i think it is perfectly natural.. just try to relax and enjoy it.. make the environment fun and just have fun with yourself! I personally think it is important to explore your body.... that way you know what u like when you do have a partner.. anyways, hope that helps!

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Maybe you need to find something else to do.. Maybe you should get a girlfriend.. Start hanging out with friends.. Join a sports team.. It's normal to masterbate, but if you feel guilty, maybe not......Health Question & Answer

it's not wrong.. it's so normal, so so so normal.. masturbate all you want.. it helps you to know your body that much better..Health Question & Answer

Nothing to feel wrong about it.. It's totally natural..
What probably happens to you is what's called a refractory period : "ex gallo omne animale triste"Health Question & Answer

find a friend or a few friends to do it with, that'll make it more fun and you won't feel so isolated ;)

seriously, enjoy your life and your body........Health Question & Answer

dont stress about it, enjoy it!

Find some other activites to do as well though e..g.. computer games, sport, reading - so at least you will feel like you break up your time and are doing different things..Health Question & Answer

yea i ask myself what im accoplishing after i do it and i wonder why i waste my time, but i keep doing it so............yeaHealth Question & Answer

just accept that alot of people do it and that it is actually healthy for you...... plus if not your hormones will drive you crazy!Health Question & Answer

sooo......what is your question......
there isnt much you can do about your guilt trips..Health Question & Answer

ya im the same age and was just about to ask this same question but its perfectly normal so don even think bout itHealth Question & Answer

lol thats exactly how i feel afterwards O well everyone does itHealth Question & Answer

u need some pussy.. continuing to masturbate wont free the thought of sex, until u have sex..Health Question & Answer

do it infront of your parents, now that is the worst guiltHealth Question & Answer

Puberty plays with your emotions.. I have been there, done that......and never wanna go back..

Guilt after masturbation is common.. Many people are taught from books, the bible, etc......that it is actually bad.. Even though you may have not been taught that, you most likely know some other people think it is bad.. That is where the guilt comes from.. Your sub-conscience knows that.. Therefore, it gives you the guilt trip..

You just need to know that it is OK and that you are going through the rough puberty times.. Everyone, at some point, feels the same.. You also need to know you can talk to someone about your emotions..

You aren't gay, aren't messed up, or anything else..Health Question & Answer



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