Puberty and Erections...?!

I would say that puberty is much the reason for this.. It happened to me a lot (I started going through puberty around age 11-12) when things happened like seeing attractive girls, etc.. so much so to the point where people would notice it and laugh in Jr.. High..

It happens to everyone (to be honest, it might be a good thing that it's during high school since people should hopefully be a little more mature about that than they would've been in Jr.. high)..

Once you are mostly done with puberty this will go away a fair bit..
Another thing I did to "manage" this was to masturbate quite a bit..

At the same time, this isn't to say when you are done with puberty you will never get spontaneous erections (personally; I don't have erections walking down the street seeing attractive girls, but I will have an erection if I start thinking about sex a lot, watch porn or get in bed with a girl)..

Hopefully having erections when you do these other things doesn't bother her.. This happens to everyone and I guess you should just explain to her that you're not sexually interested at the moment, it just happens..

If she can't deal with that........ maybe it's time to move on and start looking for someone else..Health Question & Answer

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My friend, when you are 30 and older you will be praying for an erection for your wife :)

Dude, don't stress.. Every guy went through the same thing that you're going through.. The countless erections, the multiple sexual thoughts every 5 minutes, and the fear that your erection won't go away (even after a cold shower)..

Yeah, after a while you'll be able to control your erection..Health Question & Answer

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Well its completely normal to have an erection when you kiss or have contact with someone you like/love puberty DOES increase your chances of having one (sometimes for no reason) but there isn't a problem with it, after puberty it will even out but you cant expect not to get one when in physical contact with ANYONE......think about how often you actually touch another human being......its something new and exciting to our bodies,Health Question & Answer

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You'll be fine, it's perfectly normal.. Men hit their sexual peak somewhere around the age of 18.. Since the reaction is pretty much based on your emotional state, when it'll stop happening is directly link to how comfortable you are with yourself and how familiar you are with various sexual activities..Health Question & Answer

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take it easy and relax.. all this stuff is new to you.. Erections are a normal occurance.. As you get into this situations more and more you will be able to control your body better..Health Question & Answer

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You have erections because you are arroused.. Your around the person you love which makes you arroused.. It's normal stop asking this question!Health Question & Answer

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It's normal.. And no woman will complain if she knows she turns you on that easily.. it will just make her feel beautiful and sexy..Health Question & Answer

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You're worrying about something you really don't need to..Health Question & Answer

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u freak u make no sense go sumwhereHealth Question & Answer

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no you freak youll get over it soon just think of other things

good luckHealth Question & Answer

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yes its puberty.. and when people talk to you, you think they're talking about something sexual.. we all have had it happen..Health Question & Answer

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The thrill (for lack of a better word) of physical contact with a partner, especially since she is your first girlfriend, will eventually wear off as you get used to the fact that you will not be getting any from a simple kiss or hug.. its your bodies way of naturally saying that it wants to mate, as weird as that sounds.. If you are not masturbating or getting your sexual frustrations out ( since you wont be having premarital sex supposedly) that can contribute to your over excited libido.. but its completely natural.. and be prepared for it to happen at random times during the day even without that contact.. for example im 18 and when im sitting in my very comfy college chair for lectures, I will randomly get an errection and have learned to try and will it away.. It just takes practice to try and supress it; literally and mentally.. you will not be this way for too long, as you get closer to your girlfriend you will not have that urge to get excited.. and of course, you need to find a way to better supress your member.. if your girlfriend can clearly see you have a hard-on, you better bet that everyone else can see it too.. wear some boxer briefs or in your case you may need regular briefs to keep everything firm and in place.. The best way to get rid of one in my experience, is if I feel it coming, I will stand up if I have the chance and it will go away.. This may or may not work for you, you have to figure that out for yourself.. Good luck with thatHealth Question & Answer

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It is normal to have erections when you kiss a girl.. It won't happen if you kiss the same girl many times, for instance your wife, you won't get an erection every time, but you still are likely to get them if the kiss is long and passionate or there is touching going on.. When you are way older it may become more difficult to get an erection at any time.. That's why us old f*rts have Viagra..
So it isn't something you suddenly grow out of.. For many years it will depend on the circumstances, familiarity with the girl, etc..
Hope this helps..Health Question & Answer

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