What can I do to help someone *** without having to masturbate?!
Question: What can I do to help someone *** without having to masturbate.?
My boyfriend has a problem and I want to help.. He has never in his life been able to *** unless he jerks off.. I am not sure if its a mental thing, but he has been sexually active for 10 years and not once been able to unless he does it.. Can anyone help.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
There is a few things you can do, but I'm not sure you will like the answer..
You gave no details so all of us reading your question can only assume "why" he has to get-off by hand and not vaginally..
So I am assuming he is Not feeling the sensations or stimulation needed to bring him to orgasm..
This can be for a few reasons..
Some guys just take forever to ejaculate and they literally wear out their partner and themselves trying to acheive an orgasm so they finish themselves off by hand..
Another reason could be his penis is on the small side and he's not feeling enough sensations to bring him to a climax..
All in all the main reason a guy masturbates to finish off having sex is because of lack of sensations..
One way to find out for sure is to have Anal sex.. If he gets off while having anal sex you will know for sure its lack of sensation that prevents him from having an orgasm during vaginal sex..
A lot of guys enjoy anal sex because of how tight the anal ring feels and the pressure it applies to the head of the penis and shaft..
You can also tighten up your vagina by using those specail muscles woman have and simply tighten up while he's inside of you..
Or last but definitely not least, you can insert a butt-plug up your butt which will increase the sensations for him and you.. I'm sure the added tightness will make him have an orgasm..
On the lighter side, maybe he's not hitting it hard enough.. Tell him to slam that thing in there and to get his balls slapping hard.. I say that as a joke, but in all honesty a lot of guys really get off hard and experience an intense orgasm when their partner talks dirty to them..
Good luck and have fun experimenting together..Health Question & Answer
You gave no details so all of us reading your question can only assume "why" he has to get-off by hand and not vaginally..
So I am assuming he is Not feeling the sensations or stimulation needed to bring him to orgasm..
This can be for a few reasons..
Some guys just take forever to ejaculate and they literally wear out their partner and themselves trying to acheive an orgasm so they finish themselves off by hand..
Another reason could be his penis is on the small side and he's not feeling enough sensations to bring him to a climax..
All in all the main reason a guy masturbates to finish off having sex is because of lack of sensations..
One way to find out for sure is to have Anal sex.. If he gets off while having anal sex you will know for sure its lack of sensation that prevents him from having an orgasm during vaginal sex..
A lot of guys enjoy anal sex because of how tight the anal ring feels and the pressure it applies to the head of the penis and shaft..
You can also tighten up your vagina by using those specail muscles woman have and simply tighten up while he's inside of you..
Or last but definitely not least, you can insert a butt-plug up your butt which will increase the sensations for him and you.. I'm sure the added tightness will make him have an orgasm..
On the lighter side, maybe he's not hitting it hard enough.. Tell him to slam that thing in there and to get his balls slapping hard.. I say that as a joke, but in all honesty a lot of guys really get off hard and experience an intense orgasm when their partner talks dirty to them..
Good luck and have fun experimenting together..Health Question & Answer
I would think perhaps he is so paranoid of getting a girl pregnant when he's not ready for the responsibilies of raising a child then maybe it's a mental hang-up he has.. however, if you are giving him amazing oral and he still can't *** then i have no idea eitherHealth Question & Answer
Some guys have that problem because they have to tense up there legs.. But also a lot of guys have trouble doing it standing up.. So tell him to get on his knee's and pull it out and just rub it and shoot it on your chest or something......Health Question & Answer
I think its bcoz he is afraid of having a child.. If u want to help him go and talk to him seriously and if u want have sex with him, go to a beautiful place with him and show him .......... then he will b alright.. I hope so......Health Question & Answer
This Might SOund Kind Of WIerd But YOu have to be on top.. when your on top just put the flat part of your middle finger on his butt hole and and just push it over and over as if it is a button it stimulates the prostateHealth Question & Answer
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ask him how u can help, but he dont kno then read books, watch videos, or search the web..
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