What does a man want to hear after a fight?!


Question: What does a man want to hear after a fight.?
I'm writing my ex-boyfriend a letter after a bad fight we had over a month ago.. I miss him so much and I don't care if we ever get back together but I still want to know him..

The biggest problem was my temper towards him.. We got into 2 really bad fights and it was me doing the yelling and name calling.. I wanted him to think I was crazy, which worked thanks to a little alcohol..

I'm really sorry about what I did tho he isn't totally innocent.. I don't care what he did and I miss him.. What can I say to sweet talk him and show him he was right and I was wrong.? What can I also do or say to show him that he will never see my temper again.?

Any advice guys and girls.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Most of the things you said in your question would work great in the letter.. Don't count on us to tell you how to apoligize to him.. Just follow your heart and if you do so, the words will start spilling out of you like there's not tomorrow.. I wish you luck with your ex-boyfriend and I hope all goes well for you both..Health Question & Answer

You can't guarantee that he'll never see your temper again, so forget trying to sell that one..

Guys just want to hear the truth when it comes to an apology.. They don't want you to sweeten it up, they just want the acknowledgment that you were wrong (if you were wrong), and that you understand that you were and why you were.. Plain and simple..Health Question & Answer

i would tell him you love him and always have and you wont act crazy again (only if its true)
and that you where acting that way to make him think your crazy and that you where drunk (talking about the little alcohol)

or where you just acting drunk to push him away.?Health Question & Answer

Just what you wrote is fine.. But why did you do that.? If you love some one you cannot hurt them at all..Be honest and talk..
Thats my advice for what it is worthHealth Question & Answer

Tell him exactly what you just said..

If you really miss him and seriously don't want to scare him off again with your drunken psychobitch side, tell him just what you wrote..Health Question & Answer

Just say you will have a HUGE ORGY that will calm me down after anyfightHealth Question & Answer

Tell him that you are sorry that you acted like a child and that you realize he the most wonderful man in the world.. Then tell him you will promise never to act stupid again and will buy him a case of beer.. Then tell him that you and your sexiest girlfriend will come over and drain his juices until he looks like a shriveled up prune.. If he hesitates, then tell him you will also wash his car, mow his lawn and give him money for his next two rent payments.. If this does not work he might be gay..Health Question & Answer



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