I can't *** with my girlfriend?!


Question: I can't *** with my girlfriend.?
I love my girlfriend, she's the best thing in my life, but most of the times we have sex, I she can't make me ***..

I'm ok with it, but I think it is really starting to bother her.. I keep telling her it's ok and it's just me, however I don't want it to be a problem..

Is there anything I can do with my diet.? Am I dehydrated.? I'm at a loss, as I can *** when I 'sort myself out'

HELP!!!Health Question & Answer


Answers:
if you spank it before sex (not exactally before but alittle time before) it does get harder to "blow your load" or if you had sex and did it then tried again a short time after it is harder to.. sometimes it can also be with the condoms.. it takes longer for me to when i wear a condom than when i dont.. (make sure you wear 1 at all times unless she is on birthcontrol which some will still tell you to wear one or if the relationship is serious enough).. or it could be because she isnt tight enough down there.. best advice i can give is slow down if you having alot of sex and dont spank it as much.. that could probably improve your chancesHealth Question & Answer

No no no don't worry - so many people feel that their sex life is imperfect if they can't achieve orgasm through penetrative sex.. Sex can be tiring and uncomfortable for a man, compared to sorting yourself out with a hand.. It can be hard for a man to achieve orgasm if the thrusting is tiring..
Same for women - they don't all come through sex either, most women come through clitoral stimulation, it's much easier..

Just explain to her what's going.. My partner struggles to come through sex when all the action exhausts him, so I give him a hand job instead!Health Question & Answer

For *** you mean "ejaculate".? If it is so, you can both work together with sex games and you can even have some sex fantasies.. Try something new.. The most important thing is your communication so she can help you, you'll be more confident with each other and there will be a hope for love to grow more..Health Question & Answer

Maybe you just need to talk to each other more about what your likes and dislikes are another avenue to look at is; If your able to orgasm via masturbation but not from intercourse with a partner, it can be sue to underlying psychological reasons.. Have a chat with your GPHealth Question & Answer

You're probably just too used to getting yourself off.. Try going without longer before you're with your gf.. also, try having her penetrate your rectum and massage your prostate gland while she's doing whatever else she's doing.. That should force you to orgasm..Health Question & Answer

Dude, imagine things were the other way round, and you were a one minute man.. You & your girlfriend would be a lot more bothered if that was the case..




PS Try closing your eyes & thinking of her sister/best friend!!!!!Health Question & Answer

Chill out.. The more you worry about it the worse it wil become..
Relax, listen to the music , and try to please her not yourself..Health Question & Answer

have you had this problem in the past with previous partners, if so see your GP as this is something to be addressed or do you not fancy your partner..Health Question & Answer

stop thinking of screwing up relax man and if she really like u and u really want to ejaculates tell her that u want ur fv positionHealth Question & Answer

you may have ED erectial disfunction or your just not attracted to your gf OR your nervouse..

Just clear your mind and think of SEX

Cheers!Health Question & Answer

well depending on your age you might not be old enough or dont masturbate for a whileHealth Question & Answer

do u w*nk cuz sum times if u du that the same day ur avin sex it can amke u not ***!Health Question & Answer

What do those 3 astericks stand for.?.?Health Question & Answer

could be fear of getting her pregnant.?.?Health Question & Answer

just do itHealth Question & Answer

Oh...... poor you.. Damn.. My heart goes out to you.. Poor, poor man..Health Question & Answer

sure u dont really swing for the other side.?.?Health Question & Answer

Deidre says..........

I think you like her brother, and are just trying to get to him through her, but are too afraid of what your Father would say if he came home early and caught you in your mothers Panties..
But dont worry.............. He is also very fond of Badger watching on Greenham Common..
What did you think he was doing when he tells your mother hes taking the Dog for a walk and comes home with the Grass stains on his Knees .?
Hmmm, ya little rascal..Health Question & Answer



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