Do I have erectile dysfunction?!
Question: Do I have erectile dysfunction.?
K here's what's happened..
I'm 20.. I've had sex with various girls a lot of times and never had this problem before.. The last girl I had sex with was approx 2 months ago..
I've recently starting seeing this new girl and we both find each other really attractive.. We fool around alot and have (well have attempted) to have sex on numerous occasions:
Occasion 1 - Making out/touching on the couch.. Decide to have sex, do so on the couch for about 5 mins.... Decide to move it to the bedroom.. Resume having sex.... 2 mins later i go soft (i didn't ejaculate just for the record)..
Occasion 2: Making out/touching on my bed, she goes down to give me head, starts sucking...... i start going soft..
Occasion 3: Making out/ touching/fingering etc on the couch.. Hard as a rock for 30 mins.. Decide to move to the bedroom to have sex.. Continue fooling around in the bedroom, go soft 2 mins later......
Yeah...... strange i know..
Has never happened before with any of the other girls i've had sex with.. She's sexy (i've had worse) but whenever it comes to sex i just go soft...... Getting well annoying....
Now my questions:
Do I potentially have ED.? What would have caused this.? Is it fixable.? Should i contact a professional.? Why the can i stay hard when she's rubbing/wanking my penis but when it comes to sex it just goes away.? I don't feel nervous, it just disappears.. It's extremely frustrating and i can't come up with any reasoning behind it..
Please help.. All suggestions will be appreciated..Health Question & Answer
I'm 20.. I've had sex with various girls a lot of times and never had this problem before.. The last girl I had sex with was approx 2 months ago..
I've recently starting seeing this new girl and we both find each other really attractive.. We fool around alot and have (well have attempted) to have sex on numerous occasions:
Occasion 1 - Making out/touching on the couch.. Decide to have sex, do so on the couch for about 5 mins.... Decide to move it to the bedroom.. Resume having sex.... 2 mins later i go soft (i didn't ejaculate just for the record)..
Occasion 2: Making out/touching on my bed, she goes down to give me head, starts sucking...... i start going soft..
Occasion 3: Making out/ touching/fingering etc on the couch.. Hard as a rock for 30 mins.. Decide to move to the bedroom to have sex.. Continue fooling around in the bedroom, go soft 2 mins later......
Yeah...... strange i know..
Has never happened before with any of the other girls i've had sex with.. She's sexy (i've had worse) but whenever it comes to sex i just go soft...... Getting well annoying....
Now my questions:
Do I potentially have ED.? What would have caused this.? Is it fixable.? Should i contact a professional.? Why the can i stay hard when she's rubbing/wanking my penis but when it comes to sex it just goes away.? I don't feel nervous, it just disappears.. It's extremely frustrating and i can't come up with any reasoning behind it..
Please help.. All suggestions will be appreciated..Health Question & Answer
Answers:
ED at 20 is very unlikely to be due to physiological reasons.. Which leaves psychological ones.. From your description, it seems to me that you have issues about actual intercourse with the new gf.. You need to explore what it is that is bothering your subconcious about the act itself.. It could be to do with something very deep-seated and forgotten (like accidentally discovering your parents having intercourse in a bedroom when a child.. Or possibly the new gf reminds you of your mother/sister in some very subtle way, etc..).. You don't mention oral sex.. Maybe you can introduce this into your love-making as a "halfway house" to intercourse.. But if you can't work it out for yourself, professional counselling may well help you..Health Question & Answer
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