Is my room mate gay?!

javelin, you mentioned in an earlier question that you like nudity, so I'm guessing you don't have a problem with either you or your roommate being naked together.. The fact that he was surprised to see you when you got home today tells you that he wasn't setting it up - it just happened.. He might have been thinking about masturbating and was getting ready to rock when you walked in.. Sounds like he's very comfortable in his own skin.. I wouldn't worry too much about it.. IF the both of you are straight, chill..Health Question & Answer

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I've been going to college for 3 years now, and yes, that doesnt sound normal at all, and I could never picture me or my friends being comfortable around eachother naked.. Sounds like your roommate is pretty much openly gay, make what you will of it..Health Question & Answer

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naked does not equal gay.. if you ever wake up with your boy parts in his mouth, he's gay.. in the meantime, if you're uncomfortable stand up for yourself.. the only thing worse than a gay roommate is a sissy one..Health Question & Answer

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dont just think it u should ask him cuz if not u wiil make the problem worse but i dont think he is me an my best friennd seen each other naked all the time an we not gay just as long as he dont try no funny ish then dont worry bout it hahahahaHealth Question & Answer

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I didn't read all of the junk you wrote, just go ask him..
Why would you ask the internet when you just need to walk over to him and ask if he is bisexual.?Health Question & Answer

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your jumping to conclusions with the gay thing

it sounds like he is just a nudist, nothing to worry about..

it is it common, no.. but there's nothing wrong with itHealth Question & Answer

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Dude, it's college!

people do what they want in college i LOVE being naked, but im not gay..

just ask him and who cares what r u a homophobe or something.? country boy.? lol homos are everywher get used to itHealth Question & Answer

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I dont think so.. Peolpe just like being naked and hes not shy! So maybe you should test him.. You walk around naked and see if if stares at you!.. Or just ask him..Health Question & Answer

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haahahahaaha it can go either way! some people just REALLY like being naked........ straight and gay.. so i mean i guess its normal, but kinda weird considering you don't know eachother THAT well......Health Question & Answer

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He probably not gay.. Just ask him to get some dang clothes on when your around him..

Maybe he's just showing off his junkHealth Question & Answer

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i dont think he is gay, just not shy.. if ur not sure just flat out ask him.. Health Question & Answer

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put on a gay porno and see if he gets an erectionHealth Question & Answer

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Is he gay.? Who knows.. Many guys are perfectly comfortable with nudity among themselves.. It's not unusual.. Perhaps he comes from a family of boys.. Lack of modesty does not necessarily make a person gay.. I know it's your home too, but if it bothers you, perhaps you should knock before you come in if you think he is at home.. Don't sweat it, OK..Health Question & Answer

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Whether or not it is "normal" you are uncomfortable with this and it is your home too..

You really need to sit down with this guy (fully clothed) and have an honest talk.. Tell him that you are uncomfortable with him being naked and partially dressed and that you would appreciate it if he would at least cover up with a bathrobe..

You need to tell him this - it is not right that you are uncomfortable in your own home..Health Question & Answer

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dude hes not gay alot of guys do that but one thing they odnt hang around naked wiht eachother thats kinda weird but walked from one room to the other naked and not care thats no biggy but tell him no more being naked on the couch he was probally about to jerk offf tell him if he is gogin to jerk off to not do it on ther couchHealth Question & Answer

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You have been raised to associate nudity with sex.. Your room mate has a different attitude.. People who are used to casual nudity don't associate it with sex, they associate it with being comfortable.. Your roomie asked if you were comfortable with it and you gave a false answer because you wanted to seem cool.. It's better to answer that question honestly.. He was asking because he could see you were uncomfortable.. Most nudists are willing to adjust to some extent around non-nudist friends.. Have a talk with your roommate and tell him that you've realized that you're not 100% comfortable with him being nude so much.. Maybe you're trying to be, but you haven't escaped all your programming yet.. Work out with him how much nudity you can take, and work out a compromise where you infringe as little as possible on his freedom, and he infringes as little as possible on your sensibilities.. You can always change the rules later if your attitudes change.. Open, honest communication is key in these situations..Health Question & Answer

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