If a man uses a condom his FIRST time...?!


Question: If a man uses a condom his FIRST time.......?
does that mean he doesnt loose his virginity that night.? are you NOT supposed to wear a condom the first time you do it.? I'm getting married soon and this is something that my fiance and i have been talking about......mature answers ONLY......thanks!Health Question & Answer


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I don't know what plans you have as a couple for birth control, but as a new couple, it would be a shame to Make Love the first time using a condom.. It has nothing to do with virginity, but I wanted direct contact with my wife and got full everything..

I don't consider condoms a satisfactory form a birth control for a married couple, as you are trying to build a Love Life, and the most possible experience of enjoyment and experiencing one another..

Your Lady won't notice much difference if you wear a condom or not, but you will! She will know however that you are not really touching her, but the rubber is..

For you, the condom moves with you like having a medical glove on your finger and sticking it in and out of some thick jelly.. You will feel an increase and decrease in pressure, but you won't be able to feel the jelly sliding over you finger.. The greatest pleasure sensation that the penis has is not pressure changes, but the slippery sliding experience of slippery contact sliding over the sensing receptors on the head of the penis.. You won't get any of that sensation with a condom..

The Lady does, because you and your condom are still sliding over her labia and her clitoris while you move.. She does not understand your loss with a condom, and has no way of realizing it without seeing this type of an illustration..

For most Dudes it is really way less with a condom, and becomes more based on pressure changes to the penis, and lots of imagination which to me is a poor substitute for the real thing..

My wife has an IUD....(inter uterine device).. It is a small Y shaped piece of platinum that the doctor inserts through the opening of the cervix through a tiny tube.. It is flattened in the tube, and as it is pushed out of the inserted tube, it opens into a Y shape..

It just sits there and does nothing.. Because there is this foreign negative ion material sitting in the womb, the eggs will not attach to the wall of the womb, and they just pass through with every normal period.. There is no chemical interference to her body as in the pill, and no damaging surgery to you.. Platinum is a totally inert and none corrosive material, so the body gets no irritation from it and can't tell that it's there!

It would be the best idea to have birth control in place and ready for the wedding night for completed freedom instead of fiddling around with condoms, because the first times, and the honeymoon sets the stage most often for the rest of the marriage.. This is kind of important!

You don't need to worry about if you don't last long the first orgasm, because at your age, you will likely just keep going and not even come down in erection, and the increased pleasure is what makes this possible.. Over time, you will adjust to lasting longer, as needed..

When you want babies, the gynecologist just removes the IUD.. , and back in it goes after the birth.. Sex for "both" of us is so free and amazing that thinking of it makes me shiver! Hahaha!

Wanting the very best for you Man!

Me! :- )Health Question & Answer

Yes, you will lose your virginity, condom or not..

If you are doing it for the first time that night, wearing a condom may result in you being able to last longer which will be more pleasant for your bride.. Most brides don't get any pleasure from a quick performance and, if they are virgins, about all they will remember is slight pain from the first entrance..

Many a young virgin groom has been known to immediately have an orgasm the moment he penetrates his bride for the first time.. If this happens, get a bit of rest (try not to go to sleep on her) and then try it again, a little bit slower the second time around..

You'll soon get the hang of it and have lots of pleasure trying.. If your bride has other birth control available, you may want to go 'bareback' after the first few times.. The semen you introduce into her vagina does have a positive effect on your bride -- for example, her breasts should start getting bigger after a few weeks of regular sex.. You'll both enjoy having better play toys on her chest to get you going..

Hope this helps..
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If you use a condom, and have sex then yes you will loose your virginity..

If you are not trying to get pregnant than you need to use some kind of contraception..

Condoms can be fiddly to use until you get used to them, then they are easy..

If its your first time, it could be over quite quickly (which is normal!!), but if you use a condom you might be a bit less sensitive, and might last a bit longer..

Most of all, be relaxed and have fun.. Congratulations on your Wedding!
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Semantics.. People keep redefining the meaning of virginity so they can do something they want to and still call themselves virgins.. If you have sex with another person, you are no longer a virgin.. Be a man and own up to it..

Do you want to have a baby the first time you do it.? If not, then wear a condom..Health Question & Answer

Well first talk to you future husband about sex and expectations in your relationship.. Two, you have internet access as i can see look up sex learn about it because you don't seem to know very much actually do two first then one.. And you no about your own body before you can learn about his.. And yes it would still be considered losing it.. But BEFORE you get married learn about it and talk about it.. Please..
Hope I became of some help..
Sharon May-Health Question & Answer

absolutely not.. Not wearing a condom is just irresponsible.. If wearing a condom during sex made someone a virgin millions of people would be pure as the driven snow.. Not wearing puts you and your partner at risk for a disease.. Only very faithful healthy couples interested in having children should have sex without condoms..Health Question & Answer

virginity has nothing to do with wearing a condom..

You lose your virginity when you have sex with another person.. For men, it doesnl;t matter what you do, you lose it.. For women, it is more or less defined as having actual intercourse....

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Can I be honest, usually, if a man masterbates, then he will have lost his virginity that way..If he has never masterbated.? or had sexual encounters, then he is still a virgin.. PHDHealth Question & Answer

if your not wanting to take the chance of getting pregnant, i would suggest that you wear the condom.. And you are not a virgin if your wearing a condom or not..Health Question & Answer

condom on or not first time sex will be the account of him and you losing your virginity.. trusted partners have the agreement not to use condoms but if sexual history is not known then condoms should be used..

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it doesn't matter what type of cntraception you use or what you do if you take part in a sexual activity you are no longer a virginHealth Question & Answer

well hon the only thing the condom will stop is std and pregnancy but as soon as u have that orgasm u will not be a virgin anymore..condom is for your protection only everything else follows thruHealth Question & Answer

you can pop your cherry even with the proper sports attire on.. The fact that you can achieve vaginal penetration makes you not a virgin.. Health Question & Answer

you lose your virginity the first time you penetrate a vagina or get your vagina penetrated.. there are no rules saying it doesn't count if you are safe and use protection =/Health Question & Answer

you will loose your virginity.. condom is just protecting you..Health Question & Answer

I think it's still considered losing your virginity even if you use a condomHealth Question & Answer

Did you know you can get free condoms from this site.? It works terrific..Health Question & Answer

No I definitely think you are losing your vigrinity but at the same time you're being cautious if you don't want a child, disease, etc..Health Question & Answer

No, you're still losin your virginity..Health Question & Answer

if you have sex, with a condom or without one, you're not a virgin anymore..

good luck! :)Health Question & Answer

it doesnt matter if you wear it or not he will lose his virginity no matter whatHealth Question & Answer



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