How to save my relationship?!
Question: How to save my relationship.?
I'm sorry I know this is in the wrong cat.. but I'd really like some mens opinions!!
4 years ago I lost the love of my life because I wouldn't have children..
The pain from losing him has NEVER left me.. Now, my new love has decided that he wants children more than anything now.. I would totally die if I lost this man too, I cant go through that pain again.. How can I get around this.?Health Question & Answer
4 years ago I lost the love of my life because I wouldn't have children..
The pain from losing him has NEVER left me.. Now, my new love has decided that he wants children more than anything now.. I would totally die if I lost this man too, I cant go through that pain again.. How can I get around this.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
You seem to be operating under the mistaken impression that you can have a good relationship by sacrificing your identity, your beliefs, and your values.. That is precisely the way to ruin a good relationship.. In order to have a good relationship, you have to first find someone who is compatible with you as you are and with the values that you have.. Since you do not want children, the only good relationship you can have is with someone else who likewise doesn't want them..
If you are in a relationship with a man who wants children, then you need to tell him that that is a deal-breaker and that, if he can't accept your intelligent, healthy desire to live a happy child-free life, then you must dump him first before he can dump you and make you feel guilty..
You have a right to be happy and happily child-free.. No one should have to make babies that they don't want..Health Question & Answer
If you are in a relationship with a man who wants children, then you need to tell him that that is a deal-breaker and that, if he can't accept your intelligent, healthy desire to live a happy child-free life, then you must dump him first before he can dump you and make you feel guilty..
You have a right to be happy and happily child-free.. No one should have to make babies that they don't want..Health Question & Answer
Existance of Relationship either your love one or anybody is totally different from a relation between husband and wife..So far i think you are talking about the relation with your husband.. If you are ubable to give birth then explain with your love one and let him to discuss with doctor togetherly with you so that you gusy can come in to a solution which will relax your mental seekness or scare from you side.. also try to improve yourself by removing weekness..
Birth is a natural gift from God..
Good Luck..Health Question & Answer
Birth is a natural gift from God..
Good Luck..Health Question & Answer
I don't think there is any way of getting aorund it.. I think you need to be direct and honest with yourself and the guy.. COmmunication is really the best thing you can do.. Talk to him about what you want and explain your reasons and let him talk too and tell you how he feels about it.. Health Question & Answer
Can I ask why you won't have children.?Health Question & Answer
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