Why dose it hurt me when a man puts his penis up my ***?!

I'm gay myself and while I don't have this problem, I may be able to shed some insight. A lot of times, guys who are the "catchers" in sex develop small tears inside as the result of having sex too often or too hard OR both. Sometimes, if the condom doesn't have enough lubrication on it, it can also rub against your inner wall and create tears. Another question to ask yourself is whether or not your have the pain while you're going to the toilet. If it's yes, then maybe you have a slight hemorrhoid problem. Either way, I'd suggest making a trip to the doctor. This is not scientifical research, just some common knowledge from a fellow gay man.Health Question & Answer

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go check with your doctor, just in case you have a tear in your inner walls, or to see if something also maybe wrong. i don't know what to say, see if with a lot of lubrication you feel better. and meantime, stop having sex. sorry you are having pain in the butt.. ooouch.
good luckHealth Question & Answer

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choose guys with smaller penises! Im serious, Id love to get a big one in but 1st shot - no way! so I start with a smallish one then get a guy with a bigger one & after a short while you will be able to take a big ****. Of course all depends on who is at the sauna that day.Health Question & Answer

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You should let a doctor check you out, but my guess is that you've developed a hemorrhoid along the way, a swollen vein inside your rectum or anus. If so, it's a fixable condition.
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Hahahaha what a **gHealth Question & Answer

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RepentHealth Question & Answer

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Would appear that gay sex is just a pain in the butt.Health Question & Answer

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Try taking only one penis at a time. Works for me.

Good luck!Health Question & Answer

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lol john d!

hmmm.... maybe try something different.?.?.?Health Question & Answer

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you not using enough lube that would help and try wearing a ********* to get your anus used to being penetratedHealth Question & Answer

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lube and more lubeHealth Question & Answer

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man what a bummer.Health Question & Answer

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I would believe this is lube and relaxation. smaller toys or boys first.Health Question & Answer

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i donno bcs im not gay//Health Question & Answer

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maybe because you been f$$cked to much your **** muscles have goneHealth Question & Answer

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