Some male questions.........?!


Question: Some male questions..........?
Ok so I have started high school..... and its an all boys school..... I am older than you think don't worry... and lately I have been qestioning my sexuality.....because my friend watches porn all the time! On his phone, computer just everywhere...and he asked me 2 watch porn..so I did....I watched every kind of porn 2 see what it was like and.....I sorta got an erection for all of them.....gay, lesbion, straight ect.. so I walked into school the next day....for PE class and I saw...well u get my point XD and I got an erection....I am sorta freaked out cause I never ever got an erection at penuses before (spelling lol)..... I am getting a lot of thoughts and stuff and I am worried I need helpHealth Question & Answer


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You don't mention your age so I would guess you are about 14.? If so unwanted erections aren't uncommon, as you get older they will reduce and you will be able to control them better. As for your sexuality - again if you are of the mentioned age (or close) you are discovering your sexual needs, you could be heterosexual, bi sexual or gay, but whichever it is you'll find it better to deal with if you are honest.Health Question & Answer

Sexual orientation is fixed some time before puberty hits, but you start getting sexual thoughts at that time.

Confusingly, most men will have sexual thoughts about both men and women, regardless of their orientation. Even quite normal events and settings can cause an erection, for no real reason.

The best guide to your sexuality is to see what you fantasize about when masturbating. If your thoughts are about men you are probably gay; if they are about women, you are probably straight; and if you imagine sex acts with both men and women, you are likely bisexual.

Whatever you are, it's perfectly normal and OK. Relax and get used to it - your sexuality won't change and you will spend a lifetime enjoying sex with whichever people you are attracted to.Health Question & Answer

Boys have erections all the time. Seeing other boys penises is obviously something sexual and it is quite normal to have an erection when seeing something sexual in nature. But this does not necessarily mean that you are gay! I bet most boys would have an erection even when seeing dogs having sex, but this does not mean that you wanna have sex with the dog!

You would be gay if you fancy them and want to have sex with them. Now you ask yourself, if you really want to do stuffs with them, then probably you could be gay or are just curious. Lots of boys do fool around with other boys just for the sake of experiencing, and afterwards turn out to be completely straight. Health Question & Answer

I would say that if you started feeling like you needed -sexually- to be with men, than you could have homosexual tendencies.

If you feel that -sexually- you need to be with women, you have heterosexual tendencies.

If you feel you need both sexually, perhaps you're bisexual. If that is the case, it's not such a bad thing to be.

After all, if you've ever read about Alfred Kinsey's studies, you'd find that most people have a little of both sexes in their attraction to them.Health Question & Answer

The only help you need is help in accepting that you are you, not some two-dimensional stereotype promoted by the dominant social order.

You may be bi -- so.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.? It's good to be bisexual, twice the dates and all. Stop worrying, you don't need help. You need to love yourself and others.

Kind thoughts,

HermesHealth Question & Answer

This happens a lot. Sexual stimulation can be general. Once you are overstimulated, that is. Try to curb the porn. It distorts your head about what real women are like and you can end up in a string of failed relationships when you get older.Health Question & Answer

So what. I am more turned on by lesbian porn most of the time and i am definately straight (im a 17 yr old girl) but who cares.? i love sex with guys (dont worry im not a ****) and i would never want to be with a girl...but it just so happens i prefer lesbian porn. so WHAT =]Health Question & Answer

When going through puberty you often get problems like that. Your just confused about your sexuality.

Besides, being bi means you can fit in anywhere.
Be optimistic!!Health Question & Answer

eh. masturbate more and you wont get them at bad times.

and all boys get homosexual thoughts. its part of growing up and experimenting.

don't worry your normal.Health Question & Answer

your thinking too much about sex all the time, and from watching all that porn as soon as you seen a penis you got an erection by ascosiation from all the porn you,v watched! dont worry your mind knows how you feel not your bodyHealth Question & Answer

Question your sexuality all you want. When you act upon your feelings your questioning will be over.Health Question & Answer

Don't worry about it.All boys go through these phases.The only thing that would be stange is if you didn't go through that phase.
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When I was your age I got an erection just looking at Boiling bacon and cabbage! Its called 'Different strokes for different folks'..your body will sort itself out...ever seen a female puppy humping another sibling..there ya go!Health Question & Answer

Your mind is so overstimulated that any body part would do this to you:stop worrying:part of growing up
SpaceHealth Question & Answer

being gay isnt a diesease! you wont need help! just guidance! you could be bi! the best thing to do is let your mind develop on its own :D! good luck x x x Health Question & Answer

u get erections randomly

just cos u are attracted to a bodypart it don't mean u r gayHealth Question & Answer

dont worry, i doubt you're "gay" or anything, its something a lot of teenage boys go through.. its happend to me too..Health Question & Answer

you Bi kidd.
go experiment to get it out of your system
and if you like it then fo for it then!Health Question & Answer

you could just be confused...or bisexual.Health Question & Answer

if your gay your gay ... don't be worried or try to fight it ... you might change ... might be a fase...Health Question & Answer

Dude, your bi. NEXT!Health Question & Answer

that's just normal
all guys go through
that.
nothing to worry
aboutHealth Question & Answer

doesn't matter what you are just enjoy your selfHealth Question & Answer

u aint gay just curious Health Question & Answer

if u feel gay ignore it dont let your self go that no no noHealth Question & Answer

Okay, a lot of people are going to jump on here and say you're gay, or bi, or whatever. Don't listen to them. What's happening to you is you're a young guy who has recently discovered that sex is fun. At this time in your life, that refers to all sex. Anything remotely sexual will excite you, including some things that you may never actually do. You saw some gay porn and learned that sometimes boys can be sexual with each other. When you saw naked boys the next day, it reminded you of that sexual scene, and your erection was kind of like your penis asking "Hey! Is this like what we saw last night.?" It doesn't mean you want to have sex with boys, it just means that you know that boys sometimes have sex together.

As you grow and learn about your sexuality, you will find yourself interested in many different things as time goes on and your brain tries out different things. None of these experiences should make you assign a label to yourself for life. You're in a time of experimentation, and labels like "gay", "bi" and even "straight" come with a whole lot of stereotypes and baggage that are just going to confuse you even more. So don't use them. You are a unique person, with your own mix of things you like and dislike. Feel free to explore these things in your head (and sometimes get turned on) without feeling guilty, or examining every thought to make sure it matches up with what you're "supposed to" think.

In case you're interested about the spelling, the plural of "penis" is "penises" or "penes".Health Question & Answer

You want bumsexHealth Question & Answer

ya your gay grosss!!!Health Question & Answer

have fun in hellHealth Question & Answer



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