Why do I "go soft" whenever I use a condom?!
Question: Why do I "go soft" whenever I use a condom.?
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a little over 2 weeks now. She is on birth control and we are both STD free, so sometimes we don't use a condom. But when we do use a condom, I am not nearly as "hard" as when we don't. Does anyone know why this is, or what I can do to fix this.?Health Question & Answer
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Its a momentary loss of focus - your attention is diverted and fixated on getting the rubber on, so much so that the lapse in concentration causes a drop in blood pressure leading to the decrease in hardness. You need to work on remaining focused on the sex part and less on the rubber.Health Question & Answer
yeah man, most likely it is a psychological reason. You get very anxious, and try and hurry up to put the condom on before you go soft, and then you lose your erection. The whole problem is the anxiety you feel.
also, you may want to try some erection strengthening exercises, tehy will help fortify the foundation. Check this out:
"My early Erectile Dysfunction experience":
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also, you may want to try some erection strengthening exercises, tehy will help fortify the foundation. Check this out:
"My early Erectile Dysfunction experience":
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I can't believe people are recommending not using them!
what about Jamie Lynn Spears or an STD, people are so stupid.?
maybe the condoms too tight, or find a thinner one
I had the same problem with women, it would always go soft in a condom. Now that I date men, the problem went away.Health Question & Answer
what about Jamie Lynn Spears or an STD, people are so stupid.?
maybe the condoms too tight, or find a thinner one
I had the same problem with women, it would always go soft in a condom. Now that I date men, the problem went away.Health Question & Answer
95% of the time, when a man has a problem, it's mental. You don't like the condoms, they take extra time, they spoil the fun.
Sounds normal.Health Question & Answer
Sounds normal.Health Question & Answer
Its all in your mind...I had the same problem when I was younger it just kinda kills the mood, but you can get used to it once she wont do it w/o one.Health Question & Answer
here street talk - condom phobia.
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get a thinner condom. or get a hotter gf. :PHealth Question & Answer
Condoms ruin the pleasure, dude. Happens to me.
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You're thinking too much, that's the problem.Health Question & Answer
bc condoms take away all the "flava"Health Question & Answer