Is there a reason a man would have a douche container in his shower?!


Question: Is there a reason a man would have a douche container in his shower.?
I've been dating a guy for a couple of months. I rarely go to his place and have never stayed the entire evening. Mostly because his ex-wife. Last night I went to his place and after sex I took a shower. This was the first time I ever used his shower. Anyway, I found an empty douche container in his shower next to the soap and shampoo. Is there a reason a man would (use) have douche in his shower.?

Like I said, I've never used his shower. I do not think he would expect me to use his shower either. It was a disposable type douche container and did not appear to be old (2+months). Health Question & Answer


Answers:
You already know he is doing something you suspect you wouldn't approve of. I would start snooping. Either a woman left it there or he did or another man did. But it was used by someone and it was still in the shower. What's the deal with his ex.?Health Question & Answer

There could only be two real answers: The douche could belong to his ex or he uses it after having sex with a guy. Men who are in the alternative lifestyle uses them when they have had sex in the butt. It suppose to clean them out. Hopefully he's not a down low brother. The next time you all have sex start playing with his butt and if he likes it then the douche belongs to him.Health Question & Answer

Does it matter.? If I was the guy and I found out that you were asking questions such as this about what you had seen in my home you would be out of my life so fast you would not have time to draw breath. Your behaviour is abysmal. I cannot be any more complimentary than that because this site is read by children.



Health Question & Answer

he might go both ways and douches his anus before/after anal sex. men might be coming in there quite often and he needs to keep it clean. or he might be having other girls over and one of them douched after she had sex with the guy in question. either way he is a douche bag and you should dump him.Health Question & Answer

It's used before going to a Proctologist, as well as in relation to sexual activities, both alone and not alone.

If you wanna have a good healthy relationship, honesty is an important factor. So just go ahead and ask him.Health Question & Answer

Either it belongs to another woman who left it there or he fills it with soapy water to wash his taint. Some guys with more 'dangle' find that they get a bad rash if they don't take special measures. Or maybe he has a vagina. Stranger things are true.Health Question & Answer

wow!! aint that a surprise....and odd...well i would think either its his ex wifes if he is still sneaking around with her or another woman. i highly doubt it would be his...there is only one place to insert it on a man. and its not a nice thought.Health Question & Answer

possibly his ex's... and maybe he never cleaned out the shower.? kind gross if you ask me though... could be for his booty too, why not ask him.? heck, if you're close enough to hit the sheets together then anything should be open for discussion!Health Question & Answer

you sleep with this guy but don't feel you can ask him about this directly.? what is wrong with this picture.? am I the only one that thinks this is really sad and silly.?Health Question & Answer

maybe he does it to his butt. i guess being that he is gay, and sexually active, that would make sense. women do it to their hole of penetration, and so is your bf.Health Question & Answer

It would have to be from another women.
It doesn't mean he is with that women now.
If you trust him enough to sleep with him you should be able to just ask him.
Health Question & Answer

This man clearly has a vagina. You should pay more careful attention next time you have sexual relations with him.Health Question & Answer

either hes secretly gay and douches his ***, or his ex wife isnt as ex as you think... or hes got other girls over when your not.
i dont no why any man would have a douche in his shower.Health Question & Answer

Lol. Hmmm.... Does she realize she's his "ex" wife.? If you wanna be super-sleuth about it, go to your county website and look up public records. Health Question & Answer

Could be a girl friend of his or his ex's but yes guys can use a duche. Watch a gay porn movie and you will understand why.Health Question & Answer

He is still doing stuff withhis ex, get out while you can Health Question & Answer

Either his sister came to visit..
Or he's still sleeping with his ex wife..
There's no reason why he'd have that in his washroom..Health Question & Answer

its either an enema container, or it belongs to his wife.Health Question & Answer

Another girls maybe one he was serious with before you.Health Question & Answer

This is not very thoughtful of him he should keep a full container on hand for his female friends.Health Question & Answer

Sounds like he is a homo. Wear a condom. Sorry.Health Question & Answer

Maybe he has mistaken it for a juice container.Health Question & Answer

enemaHealth Question & Answer

straight up he IS a douche
he's playing you kid!
to answer your question no there is no reason.
DUMP HIM!!!Health Question & Answer

Maybe he had that "not so fresh" feeling.Health Question & Answer

I douche every once in a while. Very cleansing it is. Health Question & Answer

douching his eye.?
=]Health Question & Answer

hes been with at least one other woman
sorry but if i was you id dump himHealth Question & Answer

ok.....Health Question & Answer

maybe he likes to be really clean inside and out.?.?.?.?Health Question & Answer

his ex wife. he has no vagina you know.she must have left it there to a piss u off. or she forgot itHealth Question & Answer



The consumer health information on youqa.cn is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2012 YouQA.cn -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Q&A Resources