MEN: If your feeling stressed (you take ur stress level to the extreme) would it be fair to say u dont want...?!
Question: MEN: If your feeling stressed (you take ur stress level to the extreme) would it be fair to say u dont want....?
to be lovey dovey kissy touchy with ur gf but still jerk off when ur home all day.?
The guy Im with takes stress to a whole another level. He cant sleep bc of it, he will literally be up for dayssss. He lost his job and is having trouble finding a new. causing lots n lots of job, money and general stress. he doesnt want to be all kissy with me like usual, meaning to foreplay, nothingggg. yettt he will jerk off and frely admit it to me. is this normal behavior.? I know he tells me right now its not me, but i cant help but feel it is...Thanks guys Health Question & Answer
The guy Im with takes stress to a whole another level. He cant sleep bc of it, he will literally be up for dayssss. He lost his job and is having trouble finding a new. causing lots n lots of job, money and general stress. he doesnt want to be all kissy with me like usual, meaning to foreplay, nothingggg. yettt he will jerk off and frely admit it to me. is this normal behavior.? I know he tells me right now its not me, but i cant help but feel it is...Thanks guys Health Question & Answer
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Sounds pretty normal to me. When guys have something on their mind they don't like to be bothered but masturbating always feels good and relieves stress.Health Question & Answer
Yes, that's a very accurate assumption. When people are stressed out, they want to remove themselves from most social situations, mainly because the social scene is often full of excess drama that would only add to stress. Him preferring to masturbate alone rather than have sex is very normal. For starters, he likely feels like a failure because of his lack of a job and inability to provide. Secondly, stress causes blood pressure to rise and that leads to problems with getting erections and such, and he likely feels that if he tried to have sex, he wouldn't be able to perform up to par and would disappoint you, again adding to his sense of failure. So yes, he's normal for withdrawing, and you just have to give him time and help him through this with your support.Health Question & Answer
Sometimes when ppl are stressed or depressed they dont want the physical touch of another person. I know that when I went through my major stress/depression period I didn't want to be around anyone or have anyone touch me, I just wanted to be left alone. Give him some time to get through this. It has to be tough losing his job. Not having a job or money can make someone feel inadequate and feel like a failure. Try to support him, I know it's hard to at the moment but if you try to help him maybe he will come around sooner. Health Question & Answer
Maybe the stress is causing him to want to "get it over with." He may be so preoccupied that he feels he doesn't have time for real sex. He still needs to be satisfied, so he masturbates quickly instead. Health Question & Answer
That's very much a male thing -- yes. It makes perfect sense.
I don't KNOW that that is the issue -- but it is likely that it is.
Kind thoughts,
HermesHealth Question & Answer
I don't KNOW that that is the issue -- but it is likely that it is.
Kind thoughts,
HermesHealth Question & Answer
wel he prolly really stress he's jerking off cause he does'nt want to please you he rather please hime self are he prolly is bored of the bedroom with you Health Question & Answer
Not me.
If I am sdtressed out, I couldn;t even focus enough for a jerk job.
i would take a hot bath and go to bedHealth Question & Answer
If I am sdtressed out, I couldn;t even focus enough for a jerk job.
i would take a hot bath and go to bedHealth Question & Answer
i think that you try not to disturb him anymore, or else he will get more frustratred, and then you will know the ending. try to agree what he said, try to allow what he wants to do, try to do when he tells you to do something. i think that it is fair to say that he doesn't want, imagine if you are in a very excruciating trouble, what would you do, you can just say it out. if you keep it in your heart, you will be mad, you will get any sickness! Stress is a kind of thing that everyone doesn't like, i think you don't like too, right.? If he scold you, try not to scold him back, try to make him happy. anyway, just be normal and don't do anything too special. but i think you can buy a present for him, and your relationship between him and you will get closer and better and closer and better. I hope you have a very good time, remember, don't try to anything SPECIAL!
Good Luck!!!!Health Question & Answer
Good Luck!!!!Health Question & Answer