Have you ever forgotten you had plans with your girl?!
Question: Have you ever forgotten you had plans with your girl.?
I used to date this guy, we hung out 3-4 times a week for about 3 months, then suddenly he started saying that he wanted to hang out on so and so date and it would come and he wouldn't call me or anything, then a few days later he'd be like "what'd you do this weekend.?" like he didn't even remember asking me to hang out. Well I broke up with him, I'm seeing this new guy, and he has NEVER stood me up, but ok last week we were supposed to hang but he had to work so we said we'd hang out wednesday, so wednesday comes, I'm getting dressed and stuff, and he calls to talk, and doesn't even mention hanging out. I felt like I was back with the other guy and I was so sad, I didn't want to bring it up though because he said he had to go help someone with something, but yeah, then he started being all cute with me and I found it hard to stay upset, but still, I'm so scared things are going to happen with this guy like they did the last one, I have to keep telling myself, that they aren't the same guy, but it's still scares me because I really care a lot about this guy I'm with now, have any of you ever just forgot you had plans to hang out with your significant other.? I don't think I could ever forget something like that.Health Question & Answer
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It depends on the person. Girls are more involved with "plans". Most guys really don't care about planning time especially for girls. When it comes to social areas guys normally go with the flow. Do not be scared or stressed. I can never remember what my plans are with different people. The fact is guys remember things differently. Girls remember things that have emotional significance much more. Next time just ask if he wants to hang out. If he doesn't you can't feel bad. Just take ten deep breaths and relax. :)Health Question & Answer
Well, yeah. I forget everything until something jogs my memory on it. Usually it's her.Health Question & Answer
listen, this is decades of experience talking, guys forget EVERYTHING. i mean, they are good guys, but they just flake out and forget. simple as that. they forget birthdays, anniversaries, plans, they forget to take out the garbage, they forget their mom asked them to feed the dog. if it can be forgotten, they will forget it.
it's the job of females to remind them and not get upset. so you call them the day before and remind them, and call them that day around noon to remind them again. and you tell them what time and where you are going. now, you gotta be nice about it, but you know, you just say "oh, i can't wait to see that movie with you tonight, my friends said it was real good". don't get an attitude about it, and everything will be fine.
the best guys are the ones that are a little useless at remembering things. the other ones that remember every little thing can be a big pain in the butt when they remember that time that you had pms and told him off, or how you fell on your butt when it was raining and tells all your family and friends every chance he gets.
cut him a break, he's extremely normal.Health Question & Answer
it's the job of females to remind them and not get upset. so you call them the day before and remind them, and call them that day around noon to remind them again. and you tell them what time and where you are going. now, you gotta be nice about it, but you know, you just say "oh, i can't wait to see that movie with you tonight, my friends said it was real good". don't get an attitude about it, and everything will be fine.
the best guys are the ones that are a little useless at remembering things. the other ones that remember every little thing can be a big pain in the butt when they remember that time that you had pms and told him off, or how you fell on your butt when it was raining and tells all your family and friends every chance he gets.
cut him a break, he's extremely normal.Health Question & Answer