Please, please help - its very upsetting!?!


Question: Please, please help - its very upsetting!.?
Hi,
I've just started to have sex, me and my partner have had sex around 4 times now ; it's quite uncomfortable, & we find it very awkuard,! I cant seem to turn her on & vice versa! Has anyone got any suggestions as to how we can make sex a more thrilling activity, & also, what sorts of activities do you do in foreplay.?
Thankyou!Health Question & Answer


Answers:
It takes time to get used to one another on a sexual level. I would recommend from personal experience that you take it slow... as far as the uncomfortable part of it i i would recommend using some lubrication.. that always helps...try different positions to see which ones suit you and your partner better... as far as foreplay goes it all depends on your partner try kissing her neck and all down her body... see what she likes and make sure to do the same with her... communication leads to the best sex :) hope this helps!Health Question & Answer

It should come natural.

If its uncomfortable, maybe you should consider that she might only be doing it so she can be closer to you, but just isn't ready for it yet.

Sprinkle some love and consideration on it.

Be one of the few good men and it'll blossom in time.Health Question & Answer

Touching spots man.
Like blow her ear with cold air and the blow it whit warm air.

Touch her in some spots that you think might turn her on.

Try pinning her back on the wall and her leg is on your shoulder.
Sit on a chair and both her legs are on your shoulders and she is moving.Health Question & Answer

You won't like my answer, but you are too young. You obviously don't have the maturity to deal. If you aren't too young, then ask her what would be better, work together, because really man, that is the only way to know what to do.Health Question & Answer

its just becus ur new to it trust me it get better ur just nervous and awkward as for fore play youcan touch each other on the privates to get turned on u can l*ck her and her s*ck u on the genitals thats always good but mostly be comfertable with each other and explore your bodies enjoyHealth Question & Answer

you can;t cook on a cold stove! if theres not heat, theres no drive. if you had sex for 4 times what did you do.? you need to tell her then, what turns you on, if you know..Health Question & Answer

A real man dont need sex to satisfy a relationship, and your failling at that anyway. Get your priorities straight and dump this girl. Health Question & Answer

You should probably just remain friends....if you don't have the chemistry now, you won't get it later. It's either THERE or it isn't. Health Question & Answer

Must know your age before any advice given.Health Question & Answer



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