How can i stop my mother from reducing my self esteem ?!
Question: How can i stop my mother from reducing my self esteem .?
My dad died 2 years ago, and my mom keeps putting me down emotionally, like if a small decision has to be made, she never values my opinion, even though i'm logically correct most of the time, she always does what other people tell her to do, either her colleagues at work or the relatives....
This has erased all the confidence i had in myself, all the belief my dad(who was a very good man respected by our whole community) had in me......
And now i feel alone, truly alone.....Health Question & Answer
This has erased all the confidence i had in myself, all the belief my dad(who was a very good man respected by our whole community) had in me......
And now i feel alone, truly alone.....Health Question & Answer
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Man, you mum is battling too. She probably relied on him to help with all her important decisions. I am pretty confident that she just doesn't want to throw all that responsibility on to you. She probably feels that she has to protect you and take his role too. You are growing up and maybe she hasn't noticed just how grown up you are now. A quiet word is needed, mate. And you are not alone while you have your mum.Health Question & Answer
There's nothing wrong with you. Any worthy person would be lucky to have you as a friend. You just need to develop a more discerning eye and learn to walk away from those who have walked away from you first. Sometimes being alone is better than being surrounded by users.
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tell her it hurts when she doese not value your opinion .talk to your guidence counceler for validationHealth Question & Answer