I Cant Stop!!!! please help?!


Question: I Cant Stop!!!! please help.?
I.....i cant stop masturbating...I've asked before but i don't think i ever got off what i was trying to say. I don't really feel bad about it. But i cant say no. Its harder to resist sexual temptations when i do. (even though wierd) if you masturbate it burns when you pee. I dont want to stop because i dont like the feeling or i feel guilty, but its that i feel like i cant stop even when i want to. Its so annoying. im tired of having the constant worry of getting seen. like i seriously cant just stop or say no. (i do not, and will not tell anyone) accept you people... i've even told myself "what would your friends and family think" but it didn't work. i'm 13 by the way. I just want advice and others that feel the same way.Health Question & Answer


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Please, PLEASE stop feeling guilty about this! I'm GLAD you can't stop masturbating - it's very good for your health, and in lots of other ways (see links below).

"what would your friends and family think" - well a lot of your friends are certainly masturbating anyway, and those who aren't will start soon. It's a sensitive topic to talk about, so friends may not admit it, but I'm sure they do.

Family - well parents vary, but most consider it normal and natural. They just find sexual things difficult to talk about.

At the age of 13 your parents should have found a way to give you privacy. If they haven't, you'll just have to manage in the toilet, shower, or in bed at night (keep tissues handy).

"if you masturbate it burns when you pee" - well your urethra will feel a bit sensitive afterwards; try drinking more water, to dilute your urine.? If that doesn't help, you may have a minor infection - don't be embarrassed to ask your doctor. He will expect you to be masturbating at 13, and will want you to feel comfortable.

PLEASE read this - be sure to read it ALL THROUGH, as the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

If your parents should happen to see you masturbating, and think it's wrong, please show them this answer; and the link above; and the links below. If they want to email me, that's fine; if you want to, that's fine. (Just click on my name to get to my Profile, then click on "Email philosopher"). It's completely confidential.

Quite honestly, I'm proud of you! For asking this question so honestly, and for having the sense to ask for other people's opinions. I do hope I've helped you feel better :-)
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It's ok to feel guilty dude. Keep masturbating. And the reason it burns because you pee is because after ejaculating there is semen covering your ( if forgot what it's called so I'll call it pee-hole). Just after you masturbate and you want to pee press the head of your penis to open the hole and get rid of the layer of semen covering your "pee-hole". Health Question & Answer

Would it do you any good if I said every time you want to masturbate, call someone and talk about it.? IM or email me, for instance; because while doing so, it will take your mind off your hands which are on the keyboard instead. You have to find something else to do every time you get the urge...a hobby, a chat friend, trying something new.Health Question & Answer

Look, if you really want to stop, imagine an old lady sucking your dick. Trust me, you won't do it for a while. But in all means, masturbation is not bad for health, in fact if you wanted to lose weight, it is great to tug the stick lot because it burns carbs, especially around your mid-section.

Hope that helped.
(Unless you are attracted to old ladies....Ewww.)Health Question & Answer

im the same age and i no its hard. what i do when i want to masturbate is play video games, hang with friends, or something

TRY TO KEEP YOUR MIND AWAY FROM YANKING!!Health Question & Answer

Jeff, It is extremely important to understand that at your age it is so normal to jerk it every second of the day. But if you really feel you need help then go to SLAA.com it's a site for sex and love addicts. Health Question & Answer

everyone feels guilty about it buti dont know why it burns when you pee but if you want to stop punch yourself really hard when you think about it or slap yoursef it sorta works.Health Question & Answer

It's normal man. Health Question & Answer

i tottly understand wat ur talkin about im 14 and i do it all the time but when u do it make it privite Health Question & Answer

I'm not sure why you're punishing yourself in this way. Whose gonna see.? You should have a lock on your door to prevent interruptions. If your parents won't give you one, just tell them you're going through changes and need your privacy.

As for your friends, they will do it too. Almost everyone does; just no one talks about it.

Masturbation is the most natural thing on earth. Guilt is nearly always associated with religion. But why would God put something so pleasurable there if He didn't want you to explore it.? If it's for when you procreate, then surely the whole puberty and feelings deal would only happen when you are about to make love.

The burning part *may* be an infection. Masturbation doesn't cause burning by itself. About the worst is a red/sore penis.Health Question & Answer

with the best will in the world, you are not going to stop. your body isn't made like that. you are producing semen the whole time and it needs to be gotten rid of.

every young guy masturbates. it's natural. there is nothing wrong with it. it's an urge that will be with you for the rest of your life. as long as it is done in private it's ok. you aren't going to stop, so don't bother trying.
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