Is sex ok or should i pull the celibacy card?!


Question: Is sex ok or should i pull the celibacy card.?
I am tired of being hurt getting into realtionships and stuff, is it ok to have sex if im not in a relationship or is celibacy my best bet.?Health Question & Answer


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The whole point of people waiting until they are in a stable, committed relationship before having sex is what you are talking about.
You take time out to get to know the other person, meet their family (so you will know his issues), and figure out whether this one is "a keeper" before putting yourself at risk in the sex arena.
Sex brings a whole range of complications into any situation, so you have to be selective.
Pull the celibacy card... it is a good bet that if the guy is just trolling, he will move on, and if he really wants you, he will hang around.Health Question & Answer

While both abstinence and celibacy refer to practices of refraining from having sex, the difference lies in the reasoning for doing so. Celibacy is most commonly practiced by priests, monks, or other members of religious groups who do not allow the members of their group to engage in sex. Celibacy forbids penile-vaginal sex and may even forbid masturbation. Abstinence, on the other hand, is simply a choice that a person makes not to engage in sex until marriage or some other specified time. This decision could be based on religious values, since many religions do promote abstinence, but it could simply be a personal choice to abstain from sex for a while- or forever. People who practice abstinence may refrain from all forms of sex (penile-vaginal, oral, and anal) or they may simply choose not to engage in penile-vaginal sex. Basically, abstinence is commonly a personal choice that someone makes to himself or herself, while celibacy is a choice made for religious reasons.
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It is ok to have sex if you are not in a relationship (so long as you are safe and comfortable with it), but no one has the right to tell you and no one other than you can know whether you should or not.

If you enjoy sex and you're confident enough not to give in to pressure and to assertive enough to make sure you're safe then by all means GO FOR IT!

If you don't think you'd be comfortable having sex outside a relationship then obviously, you shouldn't.

So... If there is someone you want to have sex with, but not be in a relationship with, by all means - go ahead. Maybe you could even negotiate a 'friends with benefits' situation (which is much safer than say, picking someone up at a bar) if you think that would suit your current lifestyle. Health Question & Answer

Well thats definitely a personal choice that you have to decide yourself hun. I personally have been hurt a lot as well. I only had sex if i was in a relationship. I was waiting for "Mr. Right" to come along and he did. We're now engaged. Sometimes even if you have casual sex without the commitment you can set yourself up to be hurt if you end up really liking that person but the feeling won't be mutual. Just make sure you look out for number 1, which is You. You do, what you think is best for you. Theres no wrong in waiting if thats the route you want to go. =) good luck with everything and take care.Health Question & Answer

Up to you really. I say celibacy though. In my late teens and early twenties I was a real party girl BUT I never put out for anyone. I guess I was a flirt but I always said to a guy straight up im celibate. If a guy said "Can I buy you a drink.?" I always answered "You can but it doesnt mean your getting in my pants so if you still wanna buy it fine if not thats fine to." Anyway I ALWAYS literally had a boyfriend. My friends that had sex always got dumped or used. So for me it really worked and I had a blast!!! My point is it depends on what you want. PS: I did have sex in my earlier teen years and regret it big time.Health Question & Answer

I know exactly what you mean. Girl, I have been there before. It worked! See I was dating this guy Matt and straight up front I told him I was celibet. He was okay with it. We didn't have sex at all for about 1 and a half years and I gave in. However, it was my choice and it was the right one. Now we've been dating for 4 years. & it's perfect. The real good guys will wait. [:

I hoped I helped! Health Question & Answer

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