My boyfriend doesn't know how to have sex properly?!
Question: My boyfriend doesn't know how to have sex properly.?
Every time we try to get anywhere, he doesn't insert properly. Like, he'll have the condom on and everything and we will be naked, but then he will try to get inside and all he will end up doing is going under my very upper thigh. To the right side before the opening. I try to direct him in the right position with my hands, but he get's all fussy and tells me "I've got it, just relax." So he just starts shoving away in the completely wrong spot. I will lay silently under him and wait till he finishes, and he really gets off. I don't know why he can't even tell he isn't inside me. I know if I tell him, he will be mortified. We are both mature adults here, and I would think that he knows how to have sex properly. What should I do.? It's happened 4 times now, not once with proper insertion. I don't want to hurt him, but honestly the latex is giving me rubber burn on my thigh. Should I break up with him.?Health Question & Answer
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Simple, your dating a virgin. I would recommand having sex while YOU are on top. Show him the ropes and I'm telling you he will never miss again. Honestly it took me quite awhile to aim it properly myself without my girlfriend having to help me, but we are human right.? Go on top of him or grab him and force it in you even if hes fussy. Guys don't fuss in the middle of sex and he will notice right away.
And No, you should NEVER break up with someone over something like sex. Sex is an activity of lust for one another and a way to show love and affection for one another. Do not let something like sex ruin your relationship.
RIDE HIM COWGIRL!Health Question & Answer
And No, you should NEVER break up with someone over something like sex. Sex is an activity of lust for one another and a way to show love and affection for one another. Do not let something like sex ruin your relationship.
RIDE HIM COWGIRL!Health Question & Answer
omg lol he is a very slow guy i mean ur both adults i mean im pretty young(13) and i have sex with guys tht i bet are younger then ur guy (14-17) and even they kno where to put it i feel bad for u maybe u can tell him or make him lay down and u get on top of him and put it where it needs to go so u can actually for the first time have proper sex with himHealth Question & Answer
that's so weird...wow...i don't think u should break up with him for just that tho...especially if u really love him. always remember that love is way more than sex..just sit and have a good talk with him...try to get to the bottom of it...ask if he really doesn't c the hole or he just doesn't want to have that kinda sex...i dunnoHealth Question & Answer
I had some problems too when I first started having sex. I always thought it was the girls job to guide the guy in. I still think it is (makes them participate more) and prefer it but my current GF never helps out so I learned real quick. Grab his junk and guide him in, women, quit being so submissive. Take turns, jeez.Health Question & Answer
Tell him you are going to give him a special treat, and you take the top position. That way you can control the action, and he will find out fast that he was not inside you without you saying anything!Health Question & Answer
maybe u should try "women on top" position once.. den when he'll knw what its like having vaginal sex.. den he'll like it more(as far as i think)..
den maybe he'll understand ur point n he'll let u direct him a little:-)
i knw it a major effort.. but this can help alotttt:-) best of luck!!Health Question & Answer
den maybe he'll understand ur point n he'll let u direct him a little:-)
i knw it a major effort.. but this can help alotttt:-) best of luck!!Health Question & Answer
First, your not mature adults. Mature adults would be able to talk about sex. if you can't tell him that he isn't inside you you then you shouldn't be having sex at all.Health Question & Answer
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maybe he doesn't actually want to have vaginal intercourse.? I mean how could he not know.? Is that even possible.? Health Question & Answer
sit him down and have a genuine talk and maybe show him how or maybe anal sex would be betterHealth Question & Answer
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