OMG this will sound weird but i need help.?!


Question: OMG this will sound weird but i need help..?
ok i sometimes have sexual thoughts of my younger female cousin :'(, i don't like it.... at all, and i need help. HELP!Health Question & Answer


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That's incredibly common -- which will lead many people to attack it viciously. They have had similar feelings.

The important thing to understand is that germ plasm from the two of you must never be mixed. Setting genetic alleles is something you do not want to do -- and having a baby would do just that. There is nothing wrong with fantasy, and you are not "bad" for having these feelings -- they just happen -- so dump the guilt. On the other hand, due to the possibility of offspring, the thoughts must never be acted on. That is best accomplished not by fighting them, which will never work -- but by sadly recognizing that you must not act on them -- but that they are sweet thoughts -- and allowing the thoughts, but simply not ever attempting to consummate them.

You are wonderful just as you are -- its only genetics that mean you should not go beyond thoughts -- and there is nothing wrong with the thoughts as thoughts, and no reason to apologize for them or explain them.

Kind thoughts,

HermesHealth Question & Answer

OMG is rite i used to kinda be like dfat but i fot it because wen i thot of those things it made me sooo mad and i couldnt have such nasty thot in my head so i looked at the girls in my skool and picked the few out that got me hard and looked at porn and ignored the nasty thots and put them away... then i thot of the girls in my skool that i saw and the porn and it worked....gud lukHealth Question & Answer

my advice is masturbate and get that out also i would say if it doesnt work try geting somethin that turns you on more like lets say porn or even gay porn it doesnt make you gay it just helps you get rid of thoughts and emotions like strees try it out and see if it works.Health Question & Answer

its not wrong to have these thoughts about girls.. but having it bout ur younger cousin is a little wierd....
wat i'll say is dat try n avoid alone wid her n try to stay from her n dont let these feelings crowd ur brain ur u'll b into trouble.. Health Question & Answer

its really up to you to control your thoughts. Unless you want to see a shrink. You can always find someone else to fantasize about.Health Question & Answer

sometimes its hard to NOT have erotic thoughts about pretty girls espceially during puberty. i would consider very carefully about acting on some of these impulses.Health Question & Answer

How old is she.? If she is of legal age, no problem. If you only have "thoughts", there's no harm in that. Health Question & Answer

There is nothing weird about it, but you may learn self control and not act on these urges.Health Question & Answer

OMG! my friend is just like that! he's hit on her a few times HA!Health Question & Answer

just try not to think about it. Health Question & Answer



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