Is it genetics that make some people more sexually aroused than others?!
Question: Is it genetics that make some people more sexually aroused than others.?
Or could it be differnt personal situations/experience. I never thought that people who don't entirely enjoy sex existed until my friend is a living proof. She rolls her eyes at me for loving sex like loving chocolate b/c i don't want to be so aroused all of the time, but i can't help it. She on the other hand wants to be highly sexually aroused as i am, but she's not. it's not fair. Could it be that i was born with higher levels of 'sexual' hormones than her, age difference, or external situations.? She has a long term steady bf and I have a few steady casual dates. She's 27 and i'm 23.
I don't want this intimacy addiction, but for me, there's just no substition/replacement for sex.Health Question & Answer
I don't want this intimacy addiction, but for me, there's just no substition/replacement for sex.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
There's a genetic factor AND a nurturing factor in sexual arousal.
Genetically, its possible you have more active hormones like testosterone and estrogen that make you hornier than her. It could also be you have a more sensitive private part than hers.
However, it could also be psychological. Perhaps you had more pleasant sexual encounters and so your brain rewarded you greatly for that, while your friend didn't have such great encounters. Over time, these behaviours are 'wired' in your brains and so you become more responsive to sex while your friend doesn't. Classic conditioning as it is called.
You can probably lose your horniness by getting yourself mentally exhausted. Try doing something very mentally stressful like chess or sudoku. But make sure you like doing it as well, else your mind will just wander back to sex =)Health Question & Answer
Genetically, its possible you have more active hormones like testosterone and estrogen that make you hornier than her. It could also be you have a more sensitive private part than hers.
However, it could also be psychological. Perhaps you had more pleasant sexual encounters and so your brain rewarded you greatly for that, while your friend didn't have such great encounters. Over time, these behaviours are 'wired' in your brains and so you become more responsive to sex while your friend doesn't. Classic conditioning as it is called.
You can probably lose your horniness by getting yourself mentally exhausted. Try doing something very mentally stressful like chess or sudoku. But make sure you like doing it as well, else your mind will just wander back to sex =)Health Question & Answer
Genetics do play the role on this because of the individually different hormonal level. For most, the level declines with age. Perhaps you ought to make a chart ( seriously ) to see how your hormonal level changes. also with marriage or a steady boyfriend you are not starved, and have a steady libido met, consequently your body's craving is less. Makes sense, do you agree .?Health Question & Answer
Yeah: thats right:Health Question & Answer