I don't think about sex but I masturbate a lot?!


Question: I don't think about sex but I masturbate a lot.?
When I see/talk to girls, I never think about sex (unless it's a really slutty girl or older woman (like 30-40 -- don't know why this is either :/) or something). I'm not gay, I am attracted to girls, I just don't think about it constantly. I do masturbate over porn a lot though. I'm 18 and a virgin :(

I guess my question is, I always hear people talking about "oooh, we were at it all night yesterday" or "I'm trying to shag her" but I don't think about that stuff, and you know most teen girls do just want sex and not a commited relationship (even if they say that's not true) so what am I gonna do.? I can't put it off until I'm like 40...Health Question & Answer


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Well, dude, you have revealed a certain something about yourself.

The fact that you masturbate regularly, especially adding porn to the mix, reveals that you truly desire sexual release and, ideally, you would like it to be with a female.

However, the fact that you "contend" that you do not think about having sex with the real females who come into your sphere reveals that you are likely very insecure about yourself.

You may not truly believe, deep down inside, that you are an attractive proposition for a female. Perhaps you're not handsome enough, or intelligent enough, or witty enough, or successful enough. Whatever it is. Instead, you retreat to the safety of porn and masturbation.Health Question & Answer

Sex works best as an expression of love for a girl; when you find the right girl, you will become interested in her sexually too.

Pornography gives an unrealistic view of sex, and could be part of your problem. Try cutting down or - ideally - giving up, and see what difference that makes.

Being a virgin at 18 is very sensible - you're not risking infection or unwanted pregnancy. Boys love to brag about their sexual exploits - don't believe all they say!

There's plenty of time for you to meet the right girl - and when you do, you'll be SO glad you waited for her!Health Question & Answer

If you stop jacking off you think about sex. You just got to try to hang out with girls even if they are not the ones you may be sexually attracted to. After awhile you get used to being with girls and you may be better suited to hang out with the hotter girls.Health Question & Answer

Well, mate I can tell you with some authority that it's like being bitten by a warewolf... Once you get the thirst... it just get's worse. That's why you don't think about it so much.. or at least, maybe not every passing minute... just yet. Health Question & Answer

you dont have to have sex.... if you dont think about it then thats it, just because all of your friends are sexually active doesnt mean that you have to be.... i think that youll know when your ready and i dont believe that time is now.... but good luck Health Question & Answer

Most teen girls are not thinking about having sex, that's the reason there are so many teen pregnancy's Find a girl, use a condomHealth Question & Answer

you can totally put it off until your like 40. that is awesome.Health Question & Answer

the real thing is better, but sometimes the urge is there so take care of that till you find woman.Health Question & Answer

visit a prostitute. she might make u fall in love with sex. but... bring a condom along.Health Question & Answer

your friends are immature and you're mature.?Health Question & Answer

Yo dude you need to hit a club or something lol but no seriousy its not wrong to be a virgin at 18. It means you probably have a greater respect for girls and most girls will respect that. what you need to do is go somewhere and walk up to the hottest girl you see and say some crazy **** to get her laughing and get to a sentence and say" yo dude your like way fun, can i get your number we can chill sometime" it will most likely work unless she gives you a fake number. lol doesnt happen tooo often but hey masterbating is normal hell i think i did it like 2 times a day but pretty much dropped it to a couple times a week. but hey its up to you to make a move.Health Question & Answer



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