What the heck is up with this guy? is this normal?!
Question: What the heck is up with this guy.? is this normal.?
im 17 and this guy at my school is really confusing me. we have done a couple projects in class together.
sometimes he is kind of stalkerish, for example, once i was driving my car out of the parking lot and he was standing to the side but still in the way of my car and he wouldn't move and so i had to swerve out of the way to avoid hitting him. we did a project in class and during it he would just keep staring at me. i always see him glancing at me in class. he is very attentive to whatever i said during the project and he uses my name multiple times when talking to me about the project- i counted 5 times last time. for example he says "mel, did you get the answer.?" or "ok, mel." so basically he is so nice to me and gives me pretty obvious hints he likes me.
but he is rude indirectly to me, for example in the class i have with him he was talking REALLY loud about something i did wrong during the project but it was NOT a big deal at all but he was making it a big deal. he also has never talked to my friends before but he knows who i am friends with and a couple names were read off on the announcements and my friend was one of them and he made a rude comment about my friend when i was right next to him.
my question is do you think he is in denial that he likes me.? why is he nice to my face and rude to me at the same time.? i dont get it.?
i used to like him but now i am just thinking he is an a**.Health Question & Answer
sometimes he is kind of stalkerish, for example, once i was driving my car out of the parking lot and he was standing to the side but still in the way of my car and he wouldn't move and so i had to swerve out of the way to avoid hitting him. we did a project in class and during it he would just keep staring at me. i always see him glancing at me in class. he is very attentive to whatever i said during the project and he uses my name multiple times when talking to me about the project- i counted 5 times last time. for example he says "mel, did you get the answer.?" or "ok, mel." so basically he is so nice to me and gives me pretty obvious hints he likes me.
but he is rude indirectly to me, for example in the class i have with him he was talking REALLY loud about something i did wrong during the project but it was NOT a big deal at all but he was making it a big deal. he also has never talked to my friends before but he knows who i am friends with and a couple names were read off on the announcements and my friend was one of them and he made a rude comment about my friend when i was right next to him.
my question is do you think he is in denial that he likes me.? why is he nice to my face and rude to me at the same time.? i dont get it.?
i used to like him but now i am just thinking he is an a**.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
No, this is not normal. Seems he likes you. He may be acting rude because that's what he normally does, and he is nice to your face cause he likes you and is trying to impress you. In a weird way, he might be acting rude to get your attention or show you he has courage. If you think about dating him, be careful as once he feels comfortable with you, he is likely to become more rude to your face. I would keep my distance, or if you become curious enough, you could just ask him why.?, but that's pretty uncomfortable to do. Good luck and I hope I helped some.Health Question & Answer
It sounds like you are both males who want to be gay but don't want to admit it. Ask him what's up with this behavior.Health Question & Answer