Is it okay for a guy to experiment with guys while in a relationship?!


Question: Is it okay for a guy to experiment with guys while in a relationship.?
My best guy friend (who is in a long-distance relationship with his gf) is now questioning his sexuality. He asked his girl friend whether he can experiment, and she agreed that he can.
Do you think he's really gay.? he claims that he's definitely into woman but still wants to experiment with guys. He says he would only want to be on the receiving end though. (a bottom)

At the beginning of college, he had an open relationship with his long distance gf so he could have sex with other women. So he basically just used women for sex. This leads to believe that some part of him is very much straight...
so I'm thinking he's just bi.
We're in college..so I guess it's good to figure his sexuality out now.

He's not definitely going to have sex with guys..but if he finds a guy, then he will. He says he won't definitely wear a condom, but the guy must get tested first. He's gotten tested a couple times and he's fine.

i don't care that he might be gay and I think its good that he's exploring...I just feel like he's using people and has used people.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
You don't think he's gay even though he tells you he is definitely a "bottom" and doesn't want any condoms used. I don't think his orientation is all that important. I don't think this guy could be anymore selfish than he already is. He doesn't seem to care what he contracts or who he passes it on to. His sexuality is simply making sure he is satisfied any way and with any one available.Health Question & Answer

dear,,, the term "relationship" is the key word here,,, i don't give a rats patooty if he's gay, str8, bi,,,, green, grey, or purple... relationships do not thrive when one of the TWO in the relationship is not faithful...

being bisexual is not a free pass to be unfaithful just because it happens to be with another guy... get your priorities in order here dear... good luck!Health Question & Answer

Hun as long as its not you hes using , hes the one loosing. Yea its good to experiment because we conclude, but its obviously for no personal gain its just to have sex with whomever. you know.Health Question & Answer

It's not healthy for a relationship to "experiment" with anyone. It's called CHEATING. Furthermore, your friend is playing a dangerous game by having unprotected sexual relations.Health Question & Answer

He sounds like a using, cheating, bisexual sl*t.

But at least he is being honest, so his gf knows what's she getting herself into.Health Question & Answer

Your friend is a walking time bomb if this the way he behaves. Does he not know about HIV AID, STD Gonorrhea.?Health Question & Answer

i think you ansrewed your own question but i am sry i couldent help you =(Health Question & Answer



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