Guys only, question about "hand jobs"?!
Question: Guys only, question about "hand jobs".?
so,I've been with my bf for about 6 months, 4 months ago we started having sex, but I've NEVER touched him down there, he's touched me, but I'm just so nervous to touch him down there, it's just I'm afraid if he'd say he didn't want me too. Well he's coming over tonight, and I really want to try this. I've never done it before, I've only ever touched my ex down there but he was wearing pants,so I'm really nervous. I mean my ex put my hand there once, but my boyfriend now has never. When we're making out and about to have sex, I'll brush my hand in that area, but I've never really done anything. So how would I go about doing this.? What are some things you guys like when your girl is giving you a hand job.?Health Question & Answer
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While you are making out with him tonight, run your hand over his stomach near his waist. Keep running your hand across his stomach but go a little lower after a few minutes. You will be able to judge by his body language if he likes it, and I'm sure he will. If that doesn't get him to place your hand on his ****, continue moving your hand lower til you are brushing against it. Surely it will be erect and pointing up after you rub it a few times. Then stop moving your hand while it is on top of his ****. If you feel it pulsating or he starts thrusting it against your hand, he wants you to do more. Gently and slowly press your fingers on one side of it and your thumb on the other. Start moving your hand up and down his shaft. Then extend your stroking to include the head of it. Continue until he ejaculates. He'll be very happy that you gave him a "hand job".
Have fun!Health Question & Answer
Have fun!Health Question & Answer
Go online and look up for a good instructional video on how to do it. And honestly you havent touched him.? He won't tell you stop. That will NEVER happen. Hmm idk if I was a guy I would be really mad about that. I would think that my gf hated my penis or something. Just touch it, it's not that big of a deal.
What about a ********.? D= have you done that.?
-ConnorHealth Question & Answer
What about a ********.? D= have you done that.?
-ConnorHealth Question & Answer
well while making out start by rubbing you hand on his thigh and feel his reaction don't look for it. if your laying down start with your hand on his mid\stomach area and slide it down while kissing. personally i like having my neck or ear kissed during this act. so happy hunting!Health Question & Answer
use your mouthHealth Question & Answer
try your mouth inestead
he'll like it better than your hand HA.Health Question & Answer
he'll like it better than your hand HA.Health Question & Answer
Just keep with the kissing, and don't go too fast or grip too tight at first, especially if you're going to have sex, because if you rev him up too much he'll finish too soon, and if you squeeze too tight when you have sex it won't be as tight as your hand.
Here's a novel idea: talk to him about it! You're close enough to each other to allow him to penetrate you, certainly you can talk about sex, right.?
EDIT: You definitly need to talk to him, since every guy has his preferences. In fact, such a conversation can be a very hot bit of foreplay...Health Question & Answer
Here's a novel idea: talk to him about it! You're close enough to each other to allow him to penetrate you, certainly you can talk about sex, right.?
EDIT: You definitly need to talk to him, since every guy has his preferences. In fact, such a conversation can be a very hot bit of foreplay...Health Question & Answer