Am I still a virgin if I got a BJ once?!


Question: Am I still a virgin if I got a BJ once.?
I've given and had oral, but that's it
Does that even count.?

oh and it was a while ago tooHealth Question & Answer


Answers:
No it doesn't. Oral isn't sex.

-ConnorHealth Question & Answer

OBERON once told me that I am only a virgin if I consider myself to be one.

Yup, when I was 4 or 5, my 12 year old cousin kinda took advantage of my innocence.
From kisses it reached oral.
I was asked to suck his penis in order to get a box of chocolates.
I obviously didn't know what I was doing (and I love chocolates even now) and ended up doing what he asked for.
e was just trying to explore his body I guess, and fortunately, he didn't ejaculate.

I started getting sudden flashbacks 10 years later, and it worried me.
I asked a question in the very forum, to find out whether I was a virgin or not.
I got the same kind of answers you have received.
Some said I was not a virgin, and some said I was.
But Oberon told me that since I didn't know what I was doing, and I was taken advantage of, I am a virgin, because virginity is something that could only be given away...not stolen.

Other answers said that to lose your virginity, either you have to penetrate a person through anus or genitalia, or get penetrated yourself.
Oral does not count, because even if it is a form of sex, it is not sexual intercourse.
Mutual masturbation is not sexual intercourse either...just a sexual activity between 2 or more participants.

So I won't say that you're a virgin.
But it's obvious you knew what you were doing.
So it depends upon you.
Do you consider yourself as a virgin.?
If yes, you are...f no, then you aren't.

But I don't believe it counts.

*Best Wishes*
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