Boyfriend down thereeeeee =/ help? ew.?!


Question: Boyfriend down thereeeeee =/ help.? ew..?
i just recently found out my boyfriend of a little over a month now had an uncircumcised penis.
for some reason this completely grosses me out
i just saw it... didnt touch it;
and the thought of it just idk it grosses me out.
i car about him a lot, this, of course is no reason to break up with him.
what do i do.?
anyone have any words to make me think this is less disgusting.?
idk... any info.?
i know its natural yadda yadda yadda. but still!
YUCK!
help.?
please =]Health Question & Answer


Answers:
well darling think of it as a new friend that you have to get to know. You think you dont like him until he kisses you but good. It might take some time but if you really do care about this guy give his wanker a chance. It might just blow you away. It is all in your mind. Tell your mind to stfu when you are doing what you doing. Good luck.Health Question & Answer



Your boyfriend is natural and normal; your attitude towards him is not.

An unmutilated penis is the natural state of man; circumcision is artificial, unnatural and abnormal.

If you can only respond to a partial, mutilated and scarred penis, you should find males who are; there's no shortage of them currently in the US.

Your boyfriend deserves better.

You're not circumcised, either. Try getting a female circumcision for yourself, being mutilated and scarred and sexually limited in sensitivity for life before you go deciding that it's better for males to be mutilated.

Genital mutilation is wrong for either sex.

A foreskin is not a birth defect; it is a birthright.Health Question & Answer

Well, an uncircumcised penis is only different from a circumcised one because of the skin. I think some girls are disgusted because it's seen as the more dirty one. There's nothing wrong with it, especially if your boyfriend stays clean and showers regularly. As you get adjusted to him and his body, you'll find yourself not being as disgusted. It's nothing nasty about it. Just get used to it and you should be fine. Hope this helps.Health Question & Answer

You get grossed out very easily. You are just unexperienced. Actually a uncircumsized penis is more natural than a cut one. Read some books and there is pleanty of information on the internet. Some guys are grossed out by a woman with large labia and things like that. If you have problems wait until you mature and are ready to explore sex with a partner you trully love or are turned on with. Good luck to you both.Health Question & Answer

well most girls would think the same thing so its not wrong you think this, since you two have only been going out for a month i doubt he would go under circumcision surgery for you, so maybe if you want to avoid future arguements or struggles you should leave him, it may sound shallow but that may be your only option since you two havent been going out that long, or you can tell him you want to wait before yall do "anything" and wait till you build up a very loving "i'll do anything for you" relationship and maybe he will get a surgery or you will not be as disgusted with itHealth Question & Answer

Well in the US 60% of men over 18 are cut, but that means 40% isn't. So the fact of the matter is a lot of guys you will meet are not cut. It comes down to is that something that's a deal breaker for you.? If it really is not then give it time to allow yourself to become more comfortable with him. Basically just learn to desensitize yourself to your revulsion.Health Question & Answer

I know!!!! It looks like a marshin or something.... freaky. BUT since you like him you will get over it pretty quick, hopefully - if it isn't too forskiny, some guys have alot and some have a little. I actually broke up with a guy over it, i mean, if his thing freaks me out why be more than friends.? I of course did not tell him this was why, no need to make him insecure. But i am with a guy and it looks circumcised when he is hard but not really when it is soft so i can deal with it - it also helps if i know he has come out of the shower.Health Question & Answer

An uncircumcised penis is normal. It sounds like you need some help.

I think you need to either get over this, or break up with him now.

It's NORMAL. It's not gross. It's clean and fine.

Lots of hot actors aren't cut if that makes you feel better. But if you liked your bf enouh you wouldn't mind that he isn't.

HarrietHealth Question & Answer

wow you sound really imature!! As long as he knows how to clean his penis in the shower properly, uncircumcised is just as hygenic as circumcised so i wouldnt worry about it. And try to stop thinking of it as gross!!! how would you feel of he thought your vagina was gross!.?Health Question & Answer

I see a lot of people saying he should get a surgery for you.. u know what.. I am circumcised and damn proud. Its not a big deal as long as you keep it clean by washing ti daily..

So like really. calm down..

he shouldn't have to do anythign for her... women outnumber men in the world by soemthing like 3-1 so there r plenty more fish in the sea..

just wait it out wit htis guy and u kno.. if u still feel uncortable.. make asure to bring it to his attention.. and then u kno wut.. w/e happens happensHealth Question & Answer

why does it gross you out, that's the way it's supposed to be, actually circumcision makes the penis dry and rough and leaves a scar, is that what you want.?

you're mean and immature, i hope he posts questions about how gross your labia is and says EEEEEEW behind your backHealth Question & Answer

Oh please grow up.

You have your own dangly bits... like labia and stuff... it's all simply a delicious part of the human anatomy... there's nothing to be repulsed over... free your mind and enjoy life. Besides, do you think your snapper could care less he has a foreskin.? I think not... you will find it more comfortable that he is uncut since the friction is less hostile.Health Question & Answer

If you leave a little thing like this keep you from doing anything with him then that is pretty little of yourself..........

What does he think of you.?.?.?.? Maybe he thinks that you should be Cut down there also.?.?.?.? Ew......YUCK.....!!!!!!!

Get a Grip and a Life.......Health Question & Answer

The only thing you can do is get used to it and move on, it's totally natural and often more pleasurable when the deed is done for both the man and the woman...Health Question & Answer

It shouldn't gross you out if he keeps it clean. It's the way we're born and it's mostly only American boys that have it done, apart from those that do it for religious reasons, like Jews and Muslims.Health Question & Answer

wow how old are you.? it's only in America that so many guys are circumsised. that's how their born. you shouldn't let something as little as weather or not he has a foreskin affect your relationship. Some girls are ridiculous...Health Question & Answer

You're immature if you are disgusted by something natural. How old are you, like 5.? Your spelling and grammar sucks as much as you do (literally)!Health Question & Answer

It's only skin and it's not gross AT ALL. You don't sound like a 13 year old. You sound like a 7 year old.

I wonder what you think about sex.Health Question & Answer

wow how immature are you
its natural you shouldnt be disgusted by it
you sound like your 13 Health Question & Answer

haha i hope he dumps you cause if this gets you all grossed out then you don't deserve him AT ALL!Health Question & Answer

grow up and get a lifeHealth Question & Answer

thats what its suppose to look like!
not an earth worm:/Health Question & Answer

sorry but an uncut penis is a lot more appealing to me than a cut one.
you can ask him to get a circumcisionHealth Question & Answer



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