I've got a problem about going to the bathroom in public?!
Question: I've got a problem about going to the bathroom in public.?
When I "a guy" can't go pee in the mens restroom when there are other guys in the restroom. I don't know why. I just can't go. Once they leave, I'm fine. Any suggestions.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Can be overcome, I had the problem for years than trained myself to overcome it. Here is what I did:
I'd step up to the urinal, unzip, pull out my gear and aim, and then close my eyes, looking straight ahead. (aim first of course, and no one will notice you have your eyes closed if looking forward).
Then, count silently to 20, with the goal of releasing the stream before the 20 count. Do this consistently for a while, even when you are the only one in the restroom. Focus on releasing the stream by the 20 count, then lowering it to 15 then 10. After a few months doing this, seldom ever have the problem, pretty much just walk up and let fly, even between two guys with no privacy shields. Good luck. Health Question & Answer
I'd step up to the urinal, unzip, pull out my gear and aim, and then close my eyes, looking straight ahead. (aim first of course, and no one will notice you have your eyes closed if looking forward).
Then, count silently to 20, with the goal of releasing the stream before the 20 count. Do this consistently for a while, even when you are the only one in the restroom. Focus on releasing the stream by the 20 count, then lowering it to 15 then 10. After a few months doing this, seldom ever have the problem, pretty much just walk up and let fly, even between two guys with no privacy shields. Good luck. Health Question & Answer
dood, i am like that to.
at the mall i ussually jus go to the family bathroom and lock the door, but that can b weird because once i caught a guy jackin off in there.
LMAO!
i was trippin out for so long after that, like i was in shock.
sorry i had to tell u that...lol!
anyways... if theres barely like once person in the bathroom, i ussually try and go in the stalls, i dont like the open ones that much, i cant relax while i kno theres a guy about an inch away from me with his lil weener out.
lol!
one thing i learned how to do tho is i can pee in front of my girlfiend now.
lol!Health Question & Answer
at the mall i ussually jus go to the family bathroom and lock the door, but that can b weird because once i caught a guy jackin off in there.
LMAO!
i was trippin out for so long after that, like i was in shock.
sorry i had to tell u that...lol!
anyways... if theres barely like once person in the bathroom, i ussually try and go in the stalls, i dont like the open ones that much, i cant relax while i kno theres a guy about an inch away from me with his lil weener out.
lol!
one thing i learned how to do tho is i can pee in front of my girlfiend now.
lol!Health Question & Answer
Hi Brendon
I can relate to what you ar saying. I recall going to the toilet at halftime at the pictures - there are heaps of guys & you have to wait in the que. Suddenly it's my turn - I step up. get the old fellah out & nothing happens ( there are many people behind me still waiting) After a while I manage to complete the task.
I have since realised i'ts a question of relaxing. If you can do that - - all will be ok. All the best.Health Question & Answer
I can relate to what you ar saying. I recall going to the toilet at halftime at the pictures - there are heaps of guys & you have to wait in the que. Suddenly it's my turn - I step up. get the old fellah out & nothing happens ( there are many people behind me still waiting) After a while I manage to complete the task.
I have since realised i'ts a question of relaxing. If you can do that - - all will be ok. All the best.Health Question & Answer
I'm a girl and sometimes I have that problem in the stall...I don't want people to hear me peeing I dunno why...I guess cuz I like being in the bathroom alone...it sometimes takes a long time for me to just start peeing. Don't worry about it...Health Question & Answer
it's a private thing so you are going to feel uncomfotable i dont like it either i usealy just wait for a stall to have some privacy.Health Question & Answer
Stage fright is normal. Try imagining natural water flowing. i.e. Niagara Falls. Whatever mental image you have of lots of water flowing will work. (It may take a few seconds, be patient!) Health Question & Answer
Just use the stalls until your comfortable in using the urinals. Health Question & Answer
Same thing happens with me. Best thing to do is perhaps try the stalls, and try imagining yourself somewhere else.Health Question & Answer
I used to be that way. I finally got over it. Experience is the best way to get over it.Health Question & Answer
You have inferior complex, thats why. Health Question & Answer
Just ignore them. As for me when I'm doing my thing in the public bathroom, i always look up at the ceiling.Health Question & Answer
Maybe you're shy.? You should know yourself better than people who haven't seen you. Health Question & Answer