Trouble in bed...need advice!!!?!


Question: Trouble in bed...need advice!!!.?
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 6 months now. We've had sex and enjoy it very much however she refuses to go down on me (Oral). I have performed this on her yet I've received nothing. I explained that I would really like it a lot and she usually responds with I don't know or I don't think so and I'm faced with no choice but to accept this. I don't want to force her and I'm not gonna break up over it, but I'd really like her too. She has also claimed that she's done it before, but I have no way of determining if thats a statement of truth. Any advise.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
That's not so unusual
See if she might experiment just a little in a bubble bath. She might be shy so a candle would be appropriate.Don't talk about it for a few mo. maybe she is nervous and she does not need the pressure. to answer to her claim of doing it before...if she did she didn't like it and if she didn't so what. In my experience it was about being cornered into saying "something...anything" to shut you up for a minute while she dies of embarrassment.
Men are patient teachers.
Boys are clumsy and in a hurry.
You sound like a man and I am sure you can back off on it for a while until she is sure of you and you have earned her "trust"
If you get my meaning on that very important word. I would rather not go into detail on a PG site. Good luck :)Health Question & Answer

This is indeed a tough one. I don't think you can do anything other than accept it and raise the subject again from time to time.

She's obviously got some hang up with it. It's a shame she can't tell you what the issue is. It could be something simple like she does not want you to come in her mouth.Health Question & Answer

well. from personly experience,
i had sex before oral with my boyfreind, and actualy tok me a while before i was comfortable with it, you just have to let her take her time, for some people its just not something there comfortable wiht, but eventualy im sure it wil be fine, and if i were you i wouldnt bring it up anymore because it wil just delay the process.
if she knows u really want it, she wont do it.
and she might have lied about doing it before.. becuas that would make more sence to me.? lol
:) Health Question & Answer

My guess would just to leave it be and not try to force her, but also don't give it to her if she wont give it to you. It's not fair and you can tell her if she wants it she has to give it also. Or also... ask for it for christmas...lolHealth Question & Answer

You have to wait until she is ready. My fiance still hasn't gotten a full bj because... I'm just not comfortable with it yet. I'm working on it. Maybe she had a really bad experience with it. Give her more time.

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I went down on my boyfriend a couple weeks ago fo the fist time and it was weird. I was Humiliated . And I was doing it fo about 15 minutes and he didn't *** he said it was pleasurable fo him but IDK.?.?.?Health Question & Answer

Buy things that will make it more appealing for her. Like flavored lube that she can put on you before she goes down to help with the taste.Health Question & Answer

Just take the pagina that you can get. Girls think its gross. Probably because our balls stink.Health Question & Answer



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