Why cant i keep and erection at age 20?!
Question: Why cant i keep and erection at age 20.?
hi. i have a problem. im 20 years old and i am a virgin. i have a girlfriend now and am completely in love.
my problem is that when ever we get things "going" i cant keep an erection long enough to actually have sex. i thought that it might have to do with a porn and masturbation problem that i have, but it was recently suggested that it is " performance anxiety" i don't know, but i need to figure this out ASAP...
is this something i can just snap out of or is it much deeperHealth Question & Answer
my problem is that when ever we get things "going" i cant keep an erection long enough to actually have sex. i thought that it might have to do with a porn and masturbation problem that i have, but it was recently suggested that it is " performance anxiety" i don't know, but i need to figure this out ASAP...
is this something i can just snap out of or is it much deeperHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Alright, first lets look at this from a medical stand point. You might have a blood pressure issue. Are you a portly guy.? This might affect your ability to have an erection. Another issue, stage fright. Yes, it does exist. Try some deep breathing exercises before you take a swing at it. Another issue could be the porn, sometimes after excessive masturbation and pornography its just harder for real life to excite you as much as it should. I would start by stopping the pornography/masturbation for a bit, if you can't at least downgrade to soft core and see how it works out. You might try a bit heavier foreplay, perhaps have her start with some oral or manual play and see where it goes. Good luck brother, I hope this works out for you.Health Question & Answer
There are many answers but also many questions of erectial dysfunction (ED) but in a young healthy guy who can maintain an errection to ejaculation when jackin, then the question of performance anxiety or other psychological issues needs to be looked at.
I would ask myself what do I fantacise about when Im jackin, and what kind of porn are u looking at.? That may answer many questions for you.
if you want to talk more openly, give me an e-mail and we can talk more.Health Question & Answer
I would ask myself what do I fantacise about when Im jackin, and what kind of porn are u looking at.? That may answer many questions for you.
if you want to talk more openly, give me an e-mail and we can talk more.Health Question & Answer
Dude, Dude, Dude I saw this question and man that sucks.
Now I am not trying to sound mean here but Is your girl good lookin
or maybe your not in to girls like i said not tryin to be mean cause I'm really not just consider those two questions and you might even have some kind of fetish that might turn you on where you can keep one you would be surprised what a fetish can do I don't want to embarrasse you to much but if you want you can email me on this dude i feel for ya manHealth Question & Answer
Now I am not trying to sound mean here but Is your girl good lookin
or maybe your not in to girls like i said not tryin to be mean cause I'm really not just consider those two questions and you might even have some kind of fetish that might turn you on where you can keep one you would be surprised what a fetish can do I don't want to embarrasse you to much but if you want you can email me on this dude i feel for ya manHealth Question & Answer
i think you just have gone too long being a virgin. you should have swiped that card 6 years ago homie
and maybe the girl you love is actually ugly, so that's why you can't keep an erectionHealth Question & Answer
and maybe the girl you love is actually ugly, so that's why you can't keep an erectionHealth Question & Answer
take viagraHealth Question & Answer
just get some viagra and you'll be fineHealth Question & Answer
see a doctor about it.Health Question & Answer
dont have a pull for a whole week. And stop smokingHealth Question & Answer