A question for guys...............?!


Question: A question for guys................?
when i see other good looking guys with great physique... i can't help but look at their bodies.... i.e. chest, flat 6-pack stomach, arms etc.... sometimes i think rather obviously and i suspect people notice.. am i normal.? do guys check out one another or is this just me.? will i turn gay....?! i'm 18... thanks guys....Health Question & Answer


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Its OK to look at other guys if you admire their bodies because you wish that you can have this kind of nice bodies, as long as you have no sexual tendencies towards them. Girls also admire other girls too for their nice body shapes and wishing that they too can have that. Then if what you suspect yourself becoming a gay, what happen to those students in boys schools, will they all become gays.?Health Question & Answer

Look....here's what I say about it. I am a woman and I notice beautiful women. I see them and I think, "wow, she's sexy...or beautiful, or great legs, etc" There is nothing wrong with that. Sexy is sexy and noticing it doesn't make one gay, even if you would happen to get a wee bit turned on while noticing it.

Think of the advertising world. There are certain images which are used very often because they make us think of sex or sensual things. Hell, even Joe Camel's face was made to look like male genitalia! There are often subliminal symbolic messages put in adds which are absolutely there to make us think "sexy." It may be a train going into a tunnel....get it.? Or it may be camera angles of a curvy car. We may not even realized the add triggered sexual thoughts in us, but even if we did realize it we would not wonder, "Am I sexually attracted to trains.?" Right.?

So.... you may or may not be gay. I cannot answer that for you. But noticing that a man is sexy does NOT make you gay. Just chill. Nothing to worry about. Health Question & Answer

Na dude just chill. Every human being does this, to both the opposite and same sex. Whether you are gay or straight has been decided much farther back than today. Only you can tell. It's pretty simple are you sexually attracted to Men or Women.? or Both.?

As far as your question: its normal to tell when someone is or isn't attractive to you, regardless of their sex. Good luck!Health Question & Answer

i do the same thing. but i dont do it based on sexual attraction. im totally straight. its normal for straight guys to be curious about these things. now, if you get turned on by them, then you might have some gay tendencies there. but in your case, i wouldnt worry.Health Question & Answer

Its ok for you to check out other guys, everyone does it!

How would you ever know what the other guys are doing or wearing.?.?.?

Come on, you don't just Turn Gay, You are Born that way........It isn't something that you just think about and then poof your gay......Come On and Get Real.....

Good Luck and Take Care...............Health Question & Answer

i chek out buff guys and think wow they have a sexy body , if u think like that ur not gay,
if u look at a guy who is buff and u think about touching his body and doing sexual acts your gay or bio, simple as thatHealth Question & Answer

anyone who says they dont is lying

its human nature.. its not necessarily that your attraced to them more that u admire them and would like to look like that yourself.Health Question & Answer

The only reason people who are ripped like that work out is to get noticed. It's an ego booster for them.

I don't think it's a sexual thing. Health Question & Answer

i would say definitely no if you were younger but since your 18 you might be. but still... you could be checkin out the competition hahaHealth Question & Answer

heck, girls do that too....you're measuring yourself upw ith someone else.....my problem is I end up feelign worse about myself...but yea, its normal. Health Question & Answer

No. That means you have low self esteem.Health Question & Answer

I dont check guys out but if a guy is really ripped or something i notice itHealth Question & Answer

haha i do the same thing..and no im not gay..Health Question & Answer

um idk i think so srry dudeHealth Question & Answer



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