Is it true (about masturbation in teens)?!
Question: Is it true (about masturbation in teens).?
Hi there, I'm 16, and I do it :D since I was 13. My question is, Is it true that when you masturbate, you kill a child.? (I mean, wasted semen).
also, why do I feel guilty when I do it.?, I know I don't hurt anyone, but I do it at home (I live with my 5 year old little sister and mom and it's awkward)
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also, why do I feel guilty when I do it.?, I know I don't hurt anyone, but I do it at home (I live with my 5 year old little sister and mom and it's awkward)
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Answers:
Most couples use birth control to limit the size of their families. That isn't killing children - just choosing not to have them. Masturbation is the same - a new life does not exist until a female is fertilized. Your testicles produce semen continuously; masturbation gets rid of old, less active sperms, so that they can be replaced by younger, more active ones.
Regarding guilt - there are two factors involved: one is mental, the other physical.
To change your mental outlook, you need to keep in mind that masturbating is VERY good for your health; that most doctors and some religious leaders recommend it. I believe this comment would help you a lot - be sure to read it ALL THROUGH, as the beginning is a bit confusing:
http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...
If you were my son I'd have told you - as soon as you were old enough to understand - that masturbating is good and healthy, and made sure you had the necessary privacy; but a lot of parents are too embarrassed to discuss it. I'm sure your parents expect you to be masturbating, but did you grow up knowing it's good.? If not, can you imagine how different you would feel if you had.?
So that's the mental side - if you can understand masturbation as wonderfully positive, I'm sure that would help.
The physical aspect is that after orgasm, your body is designed to "switch off" rapidly. You feel tired - because you've used a lot of energy; you lose your erection - because it's no longer needed; and you lose all interest in sex - because your body needs time to recover. It is easy to interpret this by feeling that you have done something wrong, but PLEASE don't think like that! It's just your body's way of telling you to take a break from sex for a while. This is necessary biologically, because the male sex drive is so strong - it would seriously interfere with the rest of our lives if it didn't go away for a while after masturbation, or sex with a partner.
For information on the health benefits of masturbation check out the links below. It's good for your heart, lungs and prostate - so congratulate yourself on having given your body a good work-out.
Achieving privacy for masturbation can be difficult in a family situation; perhaps your mom would let you have a lock on your bedroom door.? If not, just manage as best you can.
Your English is excellent. Happy Christmas! (well, not long now!).
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Regarding guilt - there are two factors involved: one is mental, the other physical.
To change your mental outlook, you need to keep in mind that masturbating is VERY good for your health; that most doctors and some religious leaders recommend it. I believe this comment would help you a lot - be sure to read it ALL THROUGH, as the beginning is a bit confusing:
http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...
If you were my son I'd have told you - as soon as you were old enough to understand - that masturbating is good and healthy, and made sure you had the necessary privacy; but a lot of parents are too embarrassed to discuss it. I'm sure your parents expect you to be masturbating, but did you grow up knowing it's good.? If not, can you imagine how different you would feel if you had.?
So that's the mental side - if you can understand masturbation as wonderfully positive, I'm sure that would help.
The physical aspect is that after orgasm, your body is designed to "switch off" rapidly. You feel tired - because you've used a lot of energy; you lose your erection - because it's no longer needed; and you lose all interest in sex - because your body needs time to recover. It is easy to interpret this by feeling that you have done something wrong, but PLEASE don't think like that! It's just your body's way of telling you to take a break from sex for a while. This is necessary biologically, because the male sex drive is so strong - it would seriously interfere with the rest of our lives if it didn't go away for a while after masturbation, or sex with a partner.
For information on the health benefits of masturbation check out the links below. It's good for your heart, lungs and prostate - so congratulate yourself on having given your body a good work-out.
Achieving privacy for masturbation can be difficult in a family situation; perhaps your mom would let you have a lock on your bedroom door.? If not, just manage as best you can.
Your English is excellent. Happy Christmas! (well, not long now!).
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Why would you kill a child. That is really silly. Sperm is not a child, and only makes a child when you copulate with a female that is ovulating. Sperm is continually produced, and any that is not ejaculated is reabsorbed by the body. You make over 2000 per second, so you have plenty to spare.
No reason to feel guilty, just normal healthy solo sex that comes naturally to all guys. The guilt is all human-created by old prudes and religious types who don't like guys enjoying their own bodies and feeling good. Keep on doing it.Health Question & Answer
No reason to feel guilty, just normal healthy solo sex that comes naturally to all guys. The guilt is all human-created by old prudes and religious types who don't like guys enjoying their own bodies and feeling good. Keep on doing it.Health Question & Answer
No there is nothing wrong with masturbation. Its a totally healthy thing to do. It does not mean you are wasting sperm. It has nothing to do with sperm count. Your body is always producing it. This is a myth that was created to stop people doing it.
You will feel funny about doing it in your family home but as long as it is private there is no problems.
Don't feel bad about something so natural. And your english is fine.Health Question & Answer
You will feel funny about doing it in your family home but as long as it is private there is no problems.
Don't feel bad about something so natural. And your english is fine.Health Question & Answer
I read a book once called 'Rough Riders of the Pampas'. It was great. Love the boleros. W ank away. the idea of wasted sperm is a religious one and exists to control you. Ignore all religious instruction and follow Nature, your one true guide.Health Question & Answer
nope
semen isn't a baby, it's a cell
boludo! and you should not feel guilty, everyone masturbates, it's the best!
and your english is fineHealth Question & Answer
semen isn't a baby, it's a cell
boludo! and you should not feel guilty, everyone masturbates, it's the best!
and your english is fineHealth Question & Answer
u eat eggs dont u.? amd besides if every sperm became a child man wow how manmy kids ould u have.? a sperm dies every 3 months so it was gonna die anyways...make sur ur sister never sees just go in the bathrrom or do it at ur girlfriends house with her hands :)Health Question & Answer
no. i don't think so. I mean sperm is YOU. not a baby. you'll have a baby if you have a woman.Health Question & Answer
men produce thousands of sperm so it's all good. you shouldn't feel awkward doing it just cause your mom and sister are in the house, it's not like they can see you or anything Health Question & Answer
man , don't worry cracking one off is human, women do it also , and they are liars if they say they don't or not have done. Wa n k e rHealth Question & Answer
No - that's an old wives tale. Don't worry about it. Do it as often as you feel comfortable with it. Health Question & Answer
Jajajaja como vas a preguntar eso jaja de por si todo mundo lo hace y tenemos millones de millones jaja y mmm con tal q no te vean esta bien jajaHealth Question & Answer
No. Masturbating does not cause harm - to you or to others. Don't feel guilty. Just be sure you have some privacy.Health Question & Answer
No you're not killing a child and you shouldn't feel guilty. It's normal.
HarrietHealth Question & Answer
HarrietHealth Question & Answer
Yeah you are the Hitler of the wanking world. Dont loose any sleep over it.Health Question & Answer
Sperm is soo undeveloped,they dont even have brains to let you know there in pain. No,thats BS.Health Question & Answer
i also like that feel when i juz starter. now no more 1 day 1 time :PHealth Question & Answer
no because to make a child its has to fetalize a egg. just lock ya door your be fine its all normal and healthy Health Question & Answer
no. i have no idea, that's on you.Health Question & Answer
no may need glasses only joking will not do you any harmHealth Question & Answer
yes sadly Health Question & Answer
no cuz ur body makes more and more semen
all sperm cells have the same dataHealth Question & Answer
all sperm cells have the same dataHealth Question & Answer
Yes, it's true and it's also a sin in the eyes of God.
Not problem with your English but where is Argentina.? Third World.?
Greetings from AMERICA!Health Question & Answer
Not problem with your English but where is Argentina.? Third World.?
Greetings from AMERICA!Health Question & Answer