How to stop looking at porn?!


Question: How to stop looking at porn.?
see i am a 16 ear old and i am a christian and i belive porn is wrong and bad but i pray all th time but i still look at it all the time and i cant stop myself....so any hep....no awnsers like get away from te computer thx plz help...i need itHealth Question & Answer


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Porn is an addiction, that's why you can't stop! It taps into the sexual nature of man that is God given, the attraction of naked women, their bodies, sex, and erotica. Your mind knows it's wrong, but your sex nature does not. When you watch naked women, or porn, the natural sex drive kicks in immediatly! It's a thrill, and it feels good. The sex drive was made that way so that man and woman would procreate and populate the earth. Now for that plan, the sex drive was very fitting and useful. But when used with something like porn and the porn industry to make billions of dollars, it's not as useful (but just as effective). So the same natural desire that attracts men to women also makes porn addicts. Once you start watching, you will continue wanting to. Church is good, and praying, The Bible, etc but unless you find something in your life to REPLACE porn, it could be a tough thing to break. Get sold out to Jesus.? Yes that works for many men but not necessarily the ones that have a porn addiction going on already. Addiction means you are out of control and powerless. You have to admit that your powerless. You have to SPECIFICALLY turn thew problem and addicition over to God. That's not necessarily easy because you may turn it over, but not really mean it deep inside. That naked photo will keep playing in your mind. You may want to look at it again. That's why I believe it's a combination of the prayer and conviction like you said, turning it over to God, admitting you have the problem and that you can't do anything to stop yourself, and finally allow God (and even other people) to help you overcome it. You might still slip or relapse, but you strive to make progress and eventually just as a habit becomes a habit, NOT doing something long enough and replacing it with other things that give you an excitement and thrill in other ways, porn will eventually seem pretty tasteless and boring. Feeding the sinful nature through your mind with pictures and videos is really a primative primal thing. There are many things in life worth doing (and are more rewarding) than that. Like for one thing, finding a REAL woman and bride to fullfill your needs and join in Godly union. Have children and a family someday, that's what this desire was really given to you for. Than you will be fullfilling God's will and using it in the proper and righteous way. HOLY MATRIMONY and sex! There is nothing sinful or wrong with having great desire toward your wife, seeing her naked, having sex, enjoying one another, and fullfillment. It's in the Bible, do not even hold back from one another! Now that's what it's really all about. Not some photos or videos that actresses lowered themselves and did immoral acts for money or the porn producers and their companies who are making a killing off this stuff. Health Question & Answer

No need to get away from the computer. Just get a trusted friend or relative to lock out the porn & only THEY know the password to enter. Erase your browsing history. Throw out any porn magazines on hand. Start socializing with kids from your church & not the street. You know which ones are the sleezeballs & which ones are not. Don't hang with the wrong crowd. Health Question & Answer

What I would do is get more involved in activities like after school stuff or hang out with friends more. don't go on the computer to much and just remind yourself everyday to stop looking @ it. Don't worry i used to have this problem and all this worked for me.

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im christian aswell the way i look at it is god forgives everything so once you so aslong as you ask forgiveness your cool anyway dont feel like you the only one. look at this page im sure your dad your priest your brother and maybe even your mam has pop one offHealth Question & Answer

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dont worry about that dude. get a girlfriend, and spend as much time as you can away from the computer. Health Question & Answer

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