I Masterbate Daily And Sometimes And I Really Want To Stop?Should I Consult A Therapist?!


Question: I Masterbate Daily And Sometimes And I Really Want To Stop.?Should I Consult A Therapist.?
Should I Consult A Therapist.?And Am Really Scared To Tell My Parents I Masterbate AlotHealth Question & Answer


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I Masterbate Daily

Jackinworld did a survey of its readers aged 11 to 19 and obtained the following results:

Average Masturbation Frequencies by Age:
11: 11.1 times per week
12: 9.4
13: 10.6
14: 10.6
15: 9.9
16: 9.6
17: 9.4
18: 8.5
19: 9.3

Remember these are averages - some will masturbate more often, some less. I did it every night after I discovered how to, when I was 10. Once a day is fine at 13.

And Sometimes And I Really Want To Stop.?

No need to stop - just learn to think positively about masturbation. Please read this - be sure you read it ALL THROUGH, as the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

also be aware that masturbating is very good for your health. This is from Wikipedia:

"A 1997 study in the British Medical Journal based upon 918 men age 45-59 found that after a ten year follow-up, men who had fewer orgasms were twice as likely to die of any cause as those having two or more orgasms a week."

Put another way - having at least two orgasms a week halves your chance of dying between the ages of 45 and 59.

You can see how this makes sense - when you masturbate your heart beats faster, and your breathing speeds up. Since the heart and lungs are two of the most important organs in the body, any safe activity that exercises them is good for your general health.

Other studies have found that frequent masturbation reduces the risk of prostate cancer - a doctor who studied the evidence recommended that teenagers masturbate at least six times a week. It is thought that regular ejaculation clears the prostate gland of chemicals that can cause cancer.

Masturbating is also a wonderful way to get to know your body sexually; this is a great help when you have more to do with girls, as you already understand your own responses.

Should I Consult A Therapist.?

No - you're perfectly normal.

And Am Really Scared To Tell My Parents I Masterbate Alot

No need to tell your parents - one dad who answered here said parents expect their kids to be masturbating, but they don't want to know about it. If your parents happen to find out, you now have the evidence that it's good and healthy. Ideally they'd already have told you this; but since they didn't, they're probably too embarrassed.Two doctors who sometimes contribute here say the same. Please stop worrying and enjoy this wonderful gift!Health Question & Answer

DONT TELL YOUR PARENTS. If you do itll be very awkward and theyll probably be angry about it. Theres nothing wrong with masturbation, its actually good for your prostate and is a good way to relieve stress. Im guessing youre around 13 or somewhere there right.? Its fine if you do it a lot. Theres no need to consult a therapist. Hell i used to do it 3-5 times a day at your age, its all the same for most teen boys. Just keep doing it as much as you want and dont get caught. Im lucky my parents were both docs so they were very understanding and mature about it. Hopefully, if u actually tell your parents which i dont u do, theyll be understanding too. Screw the idea that premarital sex and masturbation is wrong. Its always worked for me ;). Good luckHealth Question & Answer

If you don't want to do it, then why are you doing it.?

If it feels good and you like it, there's no problem. Almost everyone who masturbates does it once a day, I do it about 6 times a week because sometimes I just don't feel like it, so I don't.

If you really don't have any self control over your masturbating, you should consult someone.Health Question & Answer

Lol relax that's perfectly normal

Many guys you're age (I'm assuming you're a teenager) masturbate many times per day, like 3 or 4 times!

As long as it's not interfering with anything, like you don't want to go out with friends because you'd rather do it, than it's fine

You could try to distract yourself ie. keep yourself really busy, take up a sport etc but really i don't see the point and it doesn't seem worth it

It's perfectly normal and very healthy so why stop.?

=)


Edit: Considering you're 13, I'm even surprised you don't do it more often lol
The older you get, the less you'll do it (research shows)
But once a day is perfectly normal and healthy even for adults so no worries =)Health Question & Answer

You don't need a therapist...yet. also, it depends how old you are. you can ask your family doctor to proscribe you prozac for ocd.Health Question & Answer

Do not take prozac!! dunno428 is a ******* moron! If you are addicted to it then you could consider therapy, but it's a natural and healthy thing to do.
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Why do wanna stop.?.? I woudn't stop masturbating! Never! You should just do it less everytime!Health Question & Answer

its ok to do it up to 3 times daily, but anymore that that can be a concern, well not really, just stop when it hurtsHealth Question & Answer

dude..theres nothin with whackin off....its normal.Health Question & Answer

the first step is admitting you have an addiction to menHealth Question & Answer



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